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September 2015

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 170,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "Dating, Sex, Relationships and Marriage" with Guest Speakers, Roy Biancalana and Michael Clarke
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

 

 

Pre-Dating to Supply You with More Valuable Advice!

 

Watch for emails from Pre-Dating.NET

 

For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.

 

In the coming weeks, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.

 

Keep an eye on your inbox for our separate, free, Dating & Relationship email series from pre-dating.net (our events are on pre-dating.com as usual, the .net is for our advice site)!

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

I met someone great, and we have an amazing connection- in fact, we've been dating for over 6 months, and are now exclusive. The problem, is that I know my family will not approve of him as he is outside of my race, and I am having difficulty in how to handle this situation. 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Daring Love",

 

I have- unfortunately- come across this issue in the past. That said, my best advice is always an honest approach. 

 

Most of us tend to over think the reactions of others, and regardless of the reasoning behind that, we are often met with- GASP! Open arms. This of course being the storybook ending that we all hope for. For some, it is simply not that easy. 

 

So- step one, if you have not already, would be to discuss this with your partner, and explain the issue you are facing so you can both collaborate together on the best approach to your family. This is important as you should not be alone in this- you're now in a relationship with someone who cares about you, and you should not shut out this issue out of fear that they may be upset. With honesty, comes strength in a relationship- always. 

 

Now comes the tough part- approaching your family- together. Now, you will want to approach your nuclear family at first to be sure that both you and your partner feel more comfortable. One of three things will happen. One- the family will be open armed, and happy to meet the person who has made your life bliss over the last 6 months. The second, of course would be some push back- back after a few hours of conversation and open dialog, your family now welcomes them with open arms. The third, unfortunately- being that the family wants nothing to do with this union- now, this can change over time, but at times it simply does not. 

 

At the end of the day, regardless of the outcome- you will no longer have the weight of this on your shoulders. 90% of the time I have worked with couples in this situation, the turnout was positive. What if you fall in the 10%? You need to evaluate what is important to you- a family who can't see past the color of someone's skin, or the person who has been a source of happiness and fulfillment. That is your choice to make. 

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

Whenever I meet someone, it always seems that either they are interested in me, but they are not what I am looking for, or, I am interested in them, but they are not interested in me, what am I missing? 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Not Interested",

 

To answer this question, you will want to first think of the reason you are NOT interested in the people who have shown interest in you. Is it physical? It is their personality? Maybe it's their income level, or a combination of all three. 

 

Once you have answered this question, you will want to evaluate yourself a bit. Why do you think the people you are interested in are not interested in you? Are you less outgoing due to fear of rejection? Is it possible you are acting differently when you find something you are interested in? These things can be subtle, so it takes a bit of "stepping out of yourself" to objectively ascertain if it's you or simply that it's just the luck of the draw and therefore just a matter of time until both of you share the same interest.

 

It is important to realize these dating "mistakes", as they often lead to rejection. Be social, be yourself and most importantly, don't get caught up in the thought that the person you are interested in will never pick you. Sure, you will still get rejected here and there, but keep positive and the more experience you have, the more confidence you will gain!

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

One of the reasons my newest book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, has become a #1 best-seller on Amazon is because in the book I present a new and radical way of dating and relating, something I call, The Dating Manifesto.

 

The Dating Manifesto is a call to change the culture of dating. It's a challenge to stop playing games and date consciously. So in The Dating Manifesto, I describe 7 commitments of conscious dating. And as I said, they're radical. But when you align your life with the 7 commitments, magic happens. Drama ends and love blooms. The Dating Manifesto is a blueprint for conscious dating and they will help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship.

 

I'm going to share one of the 7 commitments in each of the next seven newsletters. (If you miss any of them, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

 

Now, in order to make this fun, I'm not only going to present each of the 7 conscious commitments, but I'm also going share their evil twins, or their opposites. Unfortunately, these counter-commitments describe "the game," how most people normally date. Choosing the conscious commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting lasting love.

 

This month we focus on Commitment #1: Responsibility. Here's how I describe it.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #1: Responsibility

 

I commit to taking full responsibility for every aspect of my dating experience, including the kinds of people I attract, how I'm treated and the patterns I experience. I realize I am the source of my experience, and therefore, the solution is found within me.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people date…

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT#1: Victimhood

 

I commit to blaming the people I date, and/or the entire dating scene for the way I'm treated and my overall dating experience. I commit to playing the role of victim, believing I am "at the effect of" others, which allows me to avoid taking responsibility for what's occurring in my love life.

 

At every moment, you are either viewing your dating experience as happening "to me" or "by me." If you're like most people and believe that life happens "to me," you disempower yourself and your life will never change. But if you can courageously choose to be curious as to how you're creating your love life, then change becomes possible.

 

If your love life is not satisfying, then take advantage of The Attracting Lasting Love Complimentary Coaching Session™. It's a 30-minute free conversation where I help you discover the primary issue that's keeping you single and what to do about it. Email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call me at 407-687-3387 to set up an appointment.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar

Oct. 6th, 2015

 

"Dating, Sex, Relationships and Marriage- The Ultimate LIVE Dating Q&A"

 

 

With Relationship Coaches, Roy Biancalana and Michael Clarke

 

Tuesday, Oct. 6th, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this crazy new world of dating, we know you have tons of questions that need answering! So, we're taking a different approach on October's Teleseminar, as we have realized that you, the audience, want to ask questions on an array of different subjects and topics! Instead of our typical 45 minute guest speaker presentation, this month-  Relationship Coach Roy Biancalana and Pre-Dating C.O.O., Michael Clarke will answer your questions directly through a constructive and informative seminar built to help you succeed in finding a lasting, emotionally and physically fulfilling relationship.

 

What you need to do to be fully prepared:

  • Write down a few questions that you would like to have answered, no questions are off the table!
  • Bring an open-mind
  • And that's it!

 

About Our Speakers 

 

 

Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.

 

Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.

 

 

Michael Clarke: has been working with singles over the last 9 years on both the business end of two of the largest singles companies in the world as well as one-on-one through his coaching business. Michael's main focus within his coaching is to help people absolve any past relationship struggles, and to help his clients turn their focus on themselves and how to be the very best person they can be before stepping back out into the dating scene.

 

Michael has been interviewed on dozens of radio stations, including "Date Therapy with Dr. Tranquility", "The Dating Jungle Live" with Tara Richter, as well as Tampa Bay's Fox News, and many others.

 

 
***PLUS RSVP NOW TO RECEIVE THIS FREE BONUS***

 

  • Deep discounts on Pre-Dating Speed Dating Events
  • 30 minute Free Coaching Session with Roy Biancalana
  • Raffle for Free Dating Events
  • Raffle for 1 of 5 Free Books from Roy Biancalana
  • ...Plus more! 

Tuesday, Oct 6th, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

 


 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

Sept. 1st, 2015

"3 Golden keys to Free Yourself From Any Fears"

 

 

With Relationship Expert and Psychotherapist, Sally Stubbs

 

Tuesday, Sept. 1st, 2015 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

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Would You Like To Have The Power To:

  • How our fears hold us back from being our self & relating Joyfully.
  • Where our fears come from & how we can thoroughly deconstruct them
  • "Golden key One": why we need self-worth in our important relationships and how we can develop the right kind of self-worth
  • "GoldenKey" Two: How self-worth creates healthy and vital 'boundaries' in our important relationships
  • "Golden Key" Three: Gaining the essential Power Balance in an important relationship – and Restoring your own 'MoJo'

  

 

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Featured Testimonial

 

 

I Just wanted to let you guys know that on July 11, 2015, I married the guy that I met at a pre-dating event in Seattle three years ago! We are very happy and grateful!

 

Arla (Seattle, WA), August 2015

 

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

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GREAT NEWS!  With the recent additions of Stacie in Ann Arbor, MI, Judy in Akron, OH and Emily in New Orleans, LA- we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
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We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Portland, OR
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•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"Not all journeys are as to be expected. Not all stones will be un-turned on your first trek. Nor will everyone walk with you. And that's OK- life is yours to make. Make your own path, your own mark, your own decisions and dream your own dreams."

 

-Michael Clarke (COO- Pre-Dating Speed Dating)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

According to a TED talk by David McCandless (link is external), most breakups are announced on Mondays, most breakups occur right before Spring Break and right before Christmas.

 

SOURCE: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/20-random-facts-about-dating-sex-breakups-and-divorce-0

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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