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July 2014









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  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
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  • Pre-Dating's NEW Ralationship Column Launches SOON!
  • Featured Client Review
  • Special Partner Offer for both Men and Women!
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "Your Body Speaks Louder than Your Words" with Dr. Nancy H. Wall
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month


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For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.


Soon, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.





Questions From Other Singles Like You

Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.


If you have a question, simply email us at and if selected for our next Newsletter you’ll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.




Hi Pre-Dating,


Whenever I meet someone, it always seems that either they are interested in me, but they are not what I am looking for, or, I am interested in them, but they are not interested in me, what am I missing? 


Answer from Pre-Dating


Dear "Not Interested",


To answer this question, you will want to first think of the reason you are NOT interested in the people who have shown interest in you. Is it physical? It is their personality? Maybe it's their income level, or a combination of all three. 


Once you have answered this question, you will want to evaluate yourself a bit. Why do you think the people you are interested in are not interested in you? Are you less outgoing due to fear of rejection? Is it possible you are acting differently when you find something you are interested in? These things can be subtle, so it takes a bit of "stepping out of yourself" to objectively ascertain if it's you or simply that it's just the luck of the draw and therefore just a matter of time until both of you share the same interest.


It is important to realize these dating "mistakes", as they often lead to rejection. Be social, be yourself and most importantly, don't get caught up in the thought that the person you are interested in will never pick you. Sure, you will still get rejected here and there, but keep positive and the more experience you have, the more confidence you will gain!




Dear Pre-Dating,


I am hesitant to try an event, as I feel like this is something people do out of desperation. I am nervous that the people there are not going to be my type and are going to be far below my standards. What are your thoughts? 


Answer from Pre-Dating


Dear "Overzealous":


You are not the first person to feel this way, infact, this is one mindset that is most often changed when someone actually attends an event, whether it be ours, or someone elses.


To dive into this question a bit further, do you go out to bars and nightclubs to meet people? Maybe you put a profile online? What's the difference in going to a singles event? Of course there are going to be some people in the room for whom you may not be interested in, however, you will be (not may be, but WILL be) surprised with who you will meet. 


A large majority of our client base tends to be busy single professionals who, like yourself, have busy work and social calendars and have little time to find a person they wish to share a romantic connection with. What's 6 minutes anyway? Even if you don't like the person romantically, maybe there is a potential for a business connection or a new friendship. Don't necessarily look at our events as a way to find your next husband or wife (although it happens all the time!), look at them as a night out with the potential of meeting some great people and have a blast. Hey, at least you have something to talk about other then what happened on "Family Guy" at the office Water Cooler the next day, right?!







Every Month, Pre-Dating wants to offer you personally selected training courses which are offered to help you get the most out of dating in the real world. Please find our special partner offers below!



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In this video, learn: 

    - How send alluring text's to entice future, or current flames

    - Avoid sending the wrong signals

    - The top 3 best texts to send

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Roy's Relationship Corner



Over the last few months, IÕve been challenging single people everywhere to adopt the 7 commitments that comprise, The Conscious Dating Manifesto. Today we look at commitment #4 and if you want to catch up on those youÕve missed, email me at, and IÕll send them to you.


The fourth conscious commitment is about seeing those we date, and all of our relationship experiences, as Allies. As I do every month, IÕm going explain the commitment, but IÕm also going share its Òevil twin,Ó the opposite of the commitment. Choosing the commitment over its Òevil twinÓ is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting your ideal partner.






I commit to seeing the people I date, and all my former partners, as allies, perfectly suited to help me learn the most important things for my growth.


Now, hereÕs its Òevil twin.Ó This is how most people liveÉ






I commit to seeing the people and circumstances in my dating experience as mistakes, baggage, enemies and impediments to having the relationship I want.


This commitment is, perhaps, the hardest one to swallow of them all (it is for me, anyway). If it sounds radical, thatÕs because it is. The idea here is that we get to choose how we view our past relationships and experiences. We get to decide if itÕs all been for our good and growth (even if itÕs been painful) or if itÕs all been a terrible mistake and an impediment to our lives.


How do we see God (or the Universe or Spirit or Oneness or Presence or whatever you call IT)? Is everything supporting our growth and aliveness or is life a random, cosmic joke? If we commit to seeing everything and everyone as our allies, perfectly suited for our growth, then notice how all our baggage dissolves!


Appreciation replaces bitterness, openness replaces closure, trust replaces fear. We donÕt know who our next relationship will be with, or how it will turn out, but we do know it will be exactly what we need! Therefore, we can live with a grateful, open, free, fearless and loving heart, and arenÕt those the sexiest, most attractive qualities in the world?


If you have questions about this commitment, send me a note at, and if youÕd like to learn more about me and my coaching practice, click those links.



Special FREE Offer from Roy Biancalana:



I know how challenging, and even how depressing it can be to find your ideal partner in today's frenzied and disconnected world. That's why I've partnered with to bring you my popular video-based eCourse, "The Attraction Factor Video Series"absolutely FREE.


You'll learn what the 5 Critical Factors in Finding "The One". It's a $100 value, but it's free to all Pre-Dating clients this week.


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FREE Dating Teleseminar:


"Strategies for Finding Your Ideal Partner

Where to Go, How to Approach and What to say to the Opposite Sex




With Relationship Coach and Author,

Roy Biancalana




Tuesday, August 5th, 2014


8:30PM EST





In this FREE Teleseminar, we will discuss:


  • The best (and worst!) places to meet people
  • How to overcome the fear of rejection or a lack of confidence
  • What to say in the first 10 secondsÑ(w/o using cheesy pick-up lines!)
  • How to master the art of Òconscious flirtingÓ
  • What quality men and women find irresistible (hint: theyÕre different)
  • And much moreÉplus a lot of free stuff!!


About our Speaker


Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.


Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.






Tuesday, July 1st, 2014


8:30PM EST







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FREE Dating Teleseminar

August 5th, 2014


"Strategies for Finding Your Ideal Partner

Where to Go, How to Approach and What to say to the Opposite Sex




With Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana


Tuesday, August 5th, 2014 at 8:30PM EST


Ð Free-





In this FREE Teleseminar, you will learn:

  • The best (and worst!) places to meet people
  • How to overcome the fear of rejection or a lack of confidence
  • What to say in the first 10 secondsÑ(w/o using cheesy pick-up lines!)
  • How to master the art of Òconscious flirtingÓ
  • What quality men and women find irresistible (hint: theyÕre different)
  • And much moreÉplus a lot of free stuff!!



Featured Testimonial


Hi Denia,

So, you asked me to let you know if I found a special lady back at a event that you held on 10/20 and I think I have. :)


I want to thank you again for holding these speed dating events and what a wonderful job you do running them! Without you, I don't think I would have ever met this wonderful woman named Nina. I actually attached a photo of us at a company holiday party.

Once again, thank you for all that you do to run these events!

- Jeff (Buffalo, Dec 2013)




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GREAT NEWS!  We now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).



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We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 


  • Atlanta, GA
  • New York City, NY
  • Omaha, NB
  • San Francisco, CA
  • Baton Rouge, LA

...And other event locations available!






"I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together."


-Julia Roberts (Actress)









People are more likely to fall for one another if the location of their first date is more exciting

We love danger and excitement in our lives, no doubt, and those are the things that bond us to other people. Go salsa dancing, see a concert, or anything you think you can bond over- just don't do the boring dinner and a movie date!




About Pre-Dating


Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.



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