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October 2015

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 180,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "The Art Of Flirting" with Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

 

 

Pre-Dating to Supply You with More Valuable Advice!

 

Watch for emails from Pre-Dating.NET

 

For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.

 

In the coming weeks, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.

 

Keep an eye on your inbox for our separate, free, Dating & Relationship email series from pre-dating.net (our events are on pre-dating.com as usual, the .net is for our advice site)!

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

I am in love with my best friend, but I am not sure he knows. I do not want to ruin the friendship, but it's like torture for me to see him go on dates with other women. I am not sure how much more I can take. What should I do?

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "My Best Friends Wedding Part 2",

 

I am pretty confident that most people reading this have been in this same situation. This is why the movie "My Best Friends Wedding", starring Julie Roberts did so well in the box office. The question is, how do you approach this with the person you have grown to fall for?

 

This can be a bit touchy, as we are playing with fire here. Friendship, over time, sometimes develops into a stronger connection as the two people begin to open up and truly get to know one another. When sexual tension is taken out of the equation, we are forced to engage in a relationship strictly based on our core values of trust, communication, and integrity. Because of this, we can develop an emotional attraction to the other person. Emotional attraction is one of the strongest attractions two people can share, far higher then physical or sexual attraction. This is the reason you fear approaching the topic of furthering the relationship with your friend. You don't want to run him away.

 

So- what do you do?! I would recommend keeping those feelings at bay for now, but- utilize light flirtation when together. Compliment his appearance, smile, and show him a "sassier" you. Almost like showing him a preview of what to expect if you were in a romantic relationship. Have him over for dinner, recommend going to the movies, etc. This is what I like to call a "Flirtationship"- a friendship with just enough spice to make him wonder, but not enough to call it a "Relationship". Keep your eyes open for returned gestures, as that could mean that an open and honest conversation may need to happen between you two. 

 

If that conversation happens, and you both want to pursue a romantic relationship with one another- it is important to set boundaries. The number one boundary- NO SEX! Well, at least for some time. Begin by going on "real dates", kiss one another, embrace each other, etc. You may even go as far as sleeping over each others houses! When you're both ready to "do the deed", you will both know- and trust me- it will be magical. 

 

Please, let us know how this pans out! I am excited to hear back from you. Wishing you the very best in your future.

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Dear Pre-Dating,

 

I am hesitant to try an event, as I feel like this is something people do out of desperation. I am nervous that the people there are not going to be my type and are going to be far below my standards. What are your thoughts? 

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Overzealous":

 

You are not the first person to feel this way, infact, this is one mindset that is most often changed when someone actually attends an event, whether it be ours, or someone elses.

 

To dive into this question a bit further, do you go out to bars and nightclubs to meet people? Maybe you put a profile online? What's the difference in going to a singles event? Of course there are going to be some people in the room for whom you may not be interested in, however, you will be (not may be, but WILL be) surprised with who you will meet. 

 

A large majority of our client base tends to be busy single professionals who, like yourself, have busy work and social calendars and have little time to find a person they wish to share a romantic connection with. What's 6 minutes anyway? Even if you don't like the person romantically, maybe there is a potential for a business connection or a new friendship. Don't necessarily look at our events as a way to find your next husband or wife (although it happens all the time!), look at them as a night out with the potential of meeting some great people and have a blast. Hey, at least you have something to talk about other then what happened on "Family Guy" at the office Water Cooler the next day, right?!

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

One of the reasons my newest book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, has become a #1 best-seller on Amazon is because in the book I present a new and radical way of dating and relating, something I call, The Dating Manifesto.

 

The Dating Manifesto is a call to change the culture of dating. It's a challenge to stop playing games and date consciously. So in The Dating Manifesto, I describe 7 commitments of conscious dating. And as I said, they're radical. But when you align your life with the 7 commitments, magic happens. Drama ends and love blooms. The Dating Manifesto is a blueprint for conscious dating and they will help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship.

 

I'm going to share one of the 7 commitments in each of the next seven newsletters. (If you miss any of them, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

 

Now, in order to make this fun, I'm not only going to present each of the 7 conscious commitments, but I'm also going share their evil twins, or their opposites. Unfortunately, these counter-commitments describe "the game," how most people normally date. Choosing the conscious commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting lasting love.

 

Last month we discussed Responsibility. This month we focus on Curiosity. Here's how I describe it.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #2: Curiosity

 

I commit to meeting every dating experience with curiosity, seeing each person and interaction as an opportunity to learn and grow in self-awareness.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people date…

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT#2: Certainty

 

I commit to being certain that my stories and perspectives are true. I commit to being right. I commit to being defensive, especially when I am sure that I'm RIGHT.

 

People often ask me, "Roy, since you work with single people, helping them to find the love of their lives, what's your success rate?" The answer is always the same: "It's 100% and 0%. It's 100% when a client is truly curious as to how they are creating their reality through their beliefs, attitudes, energy and unconscious commitments. When they're curious and open to learning, they make profound discoveries and quickly find their ideal partners.

 

But my success rate is 0% when a client is certain that it's someone else's fault, and therefore, they are not open to deep self-exploration. In that case, their certainty keeps them locked in repetitive patterns and painful experiences.

 

"Aha moments" are the portals to profound change and they only happen in an atmosphere of genuine curiosity and openness to learning. Yet when we are sure that our opinions, stories and perspectives are true and right, we close ourselves off from learning, and consequently, we keep ourselves stuck.

 

If your love life is not satisfying, then take advantage of The Attracting Lasting Love Complimentary Coaching Session™. It's a 30-minute free conversation where I help you discover the primary issue that's keeping you single and what to do about it. Email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call me at 407-687-3387 to set up an appointment.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar

November 3rd, 2015

 

"The Art of Flirting"

Creating Attraction and Connection through Playfulness and Polarity

 

 

With Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana

 

Tuesday, Nov. 3rd, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Join Pre-Dating's official relationship coach, Roy Biancalana, for a provocative and powerful seminar where you will learn:

 

  • How to tease and toy your way to a first date
  • Unleash your secret flirting weapon
  • The 3 keys to successful flirting
  • The hidden barriers to being a great flirt
  • Exactly what to say (and what not to say) when flirting
  • The difference between conventional and conscious flirting

 

About Our Speaker  

 

 

Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.

 

Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.

 

 


***PLUS RSVP NOW TO RECEIVE THIS FREE BONUS***

 

  • Deep discounts on Pre-Dating Speed Dating Events
  • 30 minute Free Coaching Session with Roy Biancalana
  • Raffle for 1 of 5 Free Books from Roy Biancalana
  • ...Plus more! 

Tuesday, Nov 3rd, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

 


 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

Sept. 1st, 2015

"3 Golden keys to Free Yourself From Any Fears"

 

 

With Relationship Expert and Psychotherapist, Sally Stubbs

 

Tuesday, Sept. 1st, 2015 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

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Would You Like To Have The Power To:

  • How our fears hold us back from being our self & relating Joyfully.
  • Where our fears come from & how we can thoroughly deconstruct them
  • "Golden key One": why we need self-worth in our important relationships and how we can develop the right kind of self-worth
  • "GoldenKey" Two: How self-worth creates healthy and vital 'boundaries' in our important relationships
  • "Golden Key" Three: Gaining the essential Power Balance in an important relationship – and Restoring your own 'MoJo'

  

 

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Featured Testimonial

 

 

I Just wanted to let you guys know that on July 11, 2015, I married the guy that I met at a pre-dating event in Seattle three years ago! We are very happy and grateful!

 

Arla (Seattle, WA), August 2015

 

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

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GREAT NEWS!  With the recent additions of Stacie in Ann Arbor, MI, Judy in Akron, OH and Emily in New Orleans, LA- we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
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We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Portland, OR
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•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"Not all journeys are as to be expected. Not all stones will be un-turned on your first trek. Nor will everyone walk with you. And that's OK- life is yours to make. Make your own path, your own mark, your own decisions and dream your own dreams."

 

-Michael Clarke (COO- Pre-Dating Speed Dating)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

According to a TED talk by David McCandless (link is external), most breakups are announced on Mondays, most breakups occur right before Spring Break and right before Christmas.

 

SOURCE: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/20-random-facts-about-dating-sex-breakups-and-divorce-0

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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