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May 2015

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 160,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Special Partner Offer for both Men and Women!
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "You Got the Date, Now What?" with Dr. Lydia Belton (Aka Dr. Tranquility)
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

 

Pre-Dating to Supply You with More Valuable Advice!

 

For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.

 

In the coming weeks, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.

 

Keep an eye on your inbox for our separate, free, Dating & Relationship email series!

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

My number one concern about dating, whether it be online, or at a face-to-face event, such as speed dating, is my fear of who I will meet. How can I know that I am safe?

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Fearful",

 

First and foremost, I would recommend that you look into why you are fearful. Most people are fearful from what they hear on the news. When was the last time you turned on the news, and saw a HAPPY story, though? American media tends to only show the negative, and not the positive.

 

That being said, if you are interested in only dating people where back-ground checks are performed, you typically will not find that in any service less then a few hundred dollars and usually over $1,000+. The reason being is it is expensive to do background checks. The only real service that will do this is a reputable and private matchmaker. If you go through such a service, it is important to do your research on the matchmaker and look at reviews, testimonials, etc. This way you are sure you are spending your money wisely.

 

Furthermore, if you do not have the money to hire a matchmaker in your area, speed dating or other local singles mixers are a great alternative, as you are not required to divulge a lot of information to other participants, but each participant is usually required to provide the service information. This provides some added protection over anonymous services. In fact, we recommend that you don't provide too much personal information, until you get to know the person a bit better. Sure- you can say what you do for a living, but you don't want to say something along the lines of"I work at ABC Pharmacy on 123 Main St.". You want to leave an event with the same amount of anonymity as you walked in with, and if you are interested in someone, see where it goes, and only meet that person in a public setting.

 

Remember- most people you meet are just looking to settledown with a great companion. It's only that rare situation that you hear about on the news. 

   


QUESTION #2:

 

Dear Pre-Dating,

 

I am curious to know what I should wear when I go out to social mixers. I tend to get people who are more interested in "hooking up" rather then taking me seriously in the relationship aspect in my cocktail outfits, however, when I dress more 'refined' I don't get hit on at all. I am baffled! 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Problemista Fashionista":

 

This is probably one of our most asked questions when it comes to attending our events (what to wear)! The answer is simple, you want to wear something that is not as intimidating as a 'business suit', but also not something that screams 'easy' like a 'Little Black Dress'. 

 

Sure- skin is great, but the old rule of thumb 'If you got it, flaunt it', doesn't necessarily work to your advantage for either extreme. Many singles choose their outfits for what is going to garner the most attention from the crowd they want to appeal to. For example- if you are going for attention, you may show off some more skin (this goes for men too), however, if you are looking for a more sophisticated look, you may lean towards a suit- which tends to give off an 'I'm better then you' appearance. 

 

So, for the answer- for Women- A nice blouse complimented by a pair of nice jeans and shoes tends to work well in a social mixer, as you are not showing off too much skin, but at the same time, these choices can compliment the assets you want to accent!

 

For Men- the best choice is a nice pair of jeans, matched with a button down shirt (that is buttoned appropriately and tucked in) and a nice pair of shoes- not sneakers.  Accessories are great for both genders, but always follow the rule of "less is more" in this area, as too much can take away from your overall look.

 

By utilizing the above, you are giving off a business casual look, which makes you approachable while not giving off that 'easy' vibe. 

   

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Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

What is THE attraction factor between men and women? What is it that pulls us together? Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, it's the magnetic attraction between the masculine and feminine energies. In my coaching practice, I rarely meet a man or a woman who understands these energies and knows how to use them to attract their life partner.

 

In my new book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, I go into great detail on masculine/feminine dynamics because misunderstanding these energies is one of the major barriers to attracting lasting love.

This is part six of a series of articles in which I'm addressing each one of the 7 barriers and I'm doing so by sharing an excerpt directly from the book. (If you missed the previous articles, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

In this month's newsletter, I want to share an excerpt from my book that describes the general nature of the masculine and feminine energies. Next month I'll focus on the feminine and the month after I'll focus on the masculine. Here's how I describe masculine/feminine dynamics in the book:

 

An excerpt from Attracting Lasting Love:

 

"New York City is a place that feels driven, focused and structured. It's "the city that never sleeps," oozing purposeful energy that's all about overcoming obstacles, conquering the competition and achieving goals. New York City, in that regard, is a Masculine place.

 

Hawaii feels quite different. It's relaxing, renewing and nurturing. You don't go there to conquer the world, but to recover from it. Her energy is healing and rejuvenating. Hawaii is a Feminine place.

 

Just as places feel Masculine or Feminine, people do too. Those that love focusing on a project or competing against others to achieve their chosen mission are New York type people. They have a Masculine essence. Their priority is where they're going and how they're going to get there.

 

Conversely, those that feel happiest when they're connecting, conversing and communing with others, rather than competing against them, are Hawaii type people. They have a Feminine essence. Their priority is not their direction, but the flow of love in their life.

 

These two energies are magnetically and powerfully attracted to each other. Just as two magnets are pulled together when their opposite north and south poles come near, so the Masculine and Feminine poles are pulled together when they come near each other. This is the basis of healthy chemistry in intimate relationships (as opposed to Persona Chemistry). When one partner's Masculine energy is brought near the other partner's Feminine energy, a magnetic force pulls them together. This force is called Polarity Chemistry and mastering it is the key to attracting lasting love."

 

If you'd like to learn more about the 7 barriers and how they might be sabotaging your ability to attract lasting love, you can preview and/or purchase the e-book or the paperback by clicking HERE.

 

Special FREE offer from Pre-Dating's relationship coach, Roy Biancalana:

 

 

It is very challenging to find your ideal partner in today's dating scene. That's why Roy and Pre-Dating.com have partnered together to bring you THE ATTRACTION FACTOR VIDEO SERIES absolutely FREE!

 

In this series of 5 short videos, sent directly to your inbox, Roy will walk you through 5 critical factors that will help you find "the one."

 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

June 2nd, 2015

 

"You Got the Date, Now What? 5 Tips To Have The Date of Your Dreams!"

 

 

With Radio Personality, and Relationship Expert,

Dr. Lydia Belton

(Aka- Dr. Tranquility)

 

 

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this Informative Teleseminar, you will learn:

  • Dating prep 101
  • The art of The Flirt
  • Our Brain Chemistry & How To Hold Their Attention In Any Situation
  • Turning Summer Flings Into A Relationship
  • 3 Ways to Know They Are absolutely 'That Into you'

 

About Our Speaker- Lydia Belton

 

Lydia Belton aka Dr. Tranquility: is a mental health expert with a background in Psychology, Relaxation Physiology for Mind-Body Medicine from Harvard University's Mind- Body Institute, now called the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind-Body Medicine and Columbia University's Rosenthal Center in Botanical Medicine. Lydia has helped numerous people address Personal Empowerment & Goal Attainment as well as Relationship Goals.

 

Through the platforms of her FM radio show, and through her other platform B WELL TV, her production company, and of course her popular wellness website, DrTranquility.com she has delivered relationship, mental health and self empowerment advice to hundreds of thousands of listeners. In 2002 Dr.Tranquility released a new protocol Date Therapy. A mind-body protocol that helps clients get in touch with their dating criteria & bliss. Under Date Therapy she has penned and has been published in numerous outlets; Among them, Forbes.com and has a monthly column on CupidsPulse.com. She has also been featured in numerous media outlets such as a Glamour UK pictorial, is a REDBOOK featured expert, has been seen on abcnews.com, as well as others.

 

 

 
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  • One Free Group Dating Workshop with Dr. Tranquility
  • Exclusive Discounts on programs by Dr Tranquility

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

June 2nd, 2015

"You Got the Date, Now What?

5 Tips To Have The Date of Your Dreams!"

 

 

With Radio Personality and Relationship Expert

Dr. Lydia Belton (Aka- Dr Tranquility)

 

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2015 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this Teleseminar you will learn:
 

  • Dating prep 101
  • The art of The Flirt
  • Our Brain Chemistry & How To Hold Their Attention In Any Situation
  • Turning Summer Flings Into A Relationship
  • 3 Ways to Know They Are absolutely 'That Into you'

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Featured Testimonial

 

 

Hi Denia,

So, you asked me to let you know if found a special lady back at a event that you held in 10/20 and I think I have. :) I want to thank you again for holding these speed dating events and what a wonderful job running them! Without you, I don't think I would have ever met this wonderful woman called Nina. I actually attached a photo of us at a company holiday party.

Once again, thank you for all that you do to run these events!

Jeff

- (Buffalo, NY Dec 2014)

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

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GREAT NEWS!  With the recent addition of Danielle in Washinton DC, and Jenna in Los Angeles, CA we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).

 

 

Please apply online HERE!

 

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We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Portland, OR
•    Omaha, NB

•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"I used to be a real prince charming if I went on a date with a girl. But then I'd get to where I was likely to have a stroke from the stress of keeping up my act. I've since learned the key to a good date is to pay attention on her."

 

- Matthew Perry (Actor)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years.

 

SOURCE: http://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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