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January 2015









Sent to over 135,000 Single Professionals!


  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Happy Valentines Day from Pre-Dating Speed Dating!
  • Featured Client Review
  • Special Partner Offer for both Men and Women!
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "4 Ways You're Sabotaging Your Love Life" with Roy Biancalana
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

Happy Valentine's Day! 

From Pre-Dating Speed Dating


    We here at Pre-Dating Speed Dating would like to wish you a very happy Valentine's Day! If you have not already, check out the many, many speed dating events we have happening in your area.


Now is the time to attend one of our fun events as this is our busiest time of the year- meaning, we have more people coming out to our events, and you have a greater chance of meeting someone wonderful!


Who knows, maybe you too will have a Valentine's Date this year! 


Click HERE to find events in your area! 



No Events in Your Area? Join Our Team!


If we are currently NOT in your area, and you are interested in making some extra money on the side, all while having a blast doing so with a team of fun, uplifting people, you may want to consider becoming one of our many Event Coordinators. We offer phenominal training, a great support system and a stellar leadership team to help you be the best you can be.


Simply click here to learn more and start the process!





Pre-Dating to Supply You with More Valuable Advice!


For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.


In the coming weeks, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.


Keep an eye on your inbox for our separate, free, Dating & Relationship email series!







Questions From Other Singles Like You

Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.


If you have a question, simply email us at and if selected for our next Newsletter you’ll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.




Hi Pre-Dating,


My number one concern about dating, whether it be online, or at a face-to-face event, such as speed dating, is my fear of who I will meet. How can I know that I am safe?


Answer from Pre-Dating


Dear ""Fearful",


First and foremost, I would recommend that you look into why you are fearful. Most people are fearful from what they hear on the news. When was the last time you turned on the news, and saw a HAPPY story, though? American media tends to only show the negative, and not the positive.


That being said, if you are interested in only dating people where back-ground checks are performed, you will not find that in any service less then a few hundred dollars a month. The reason being is it is expensive to do background checks. The only real service that will do this is a reputable and private matchmaker. If go through such a service, it is important to do your research on the matchmaker and look at reviews, testimonials, etc. This way you are sure you are spending your money wisely.


Furthermore, if you do not have the money to hire a matchmaker in your area, speed dating or other local singles mixers are a great alternative, as you are not required to divulge a lot of information. In fact, we recommend that you don't, until you get to know the person a bit better. Sure- you can say what you do for a living, but you don't want to say something along the lines of"I work at ABC Pharmacy on 123 Main St.". You want to leave an event with the same amount of anonymity as you walked in with, and if you are interested in someone, see where it goes, and only meet that person in a public setting.


Remember- the chances of meeting someone who has a checkered history is slim, 99% of singles out there are quality singles who are just looking to settledown with a great companion. It's only that 1% that you hear about on the news. 




Dear Pre-Dating,


I am curious to know what I should wear when I go out to social mixers. I tend to get people who are more interested in "hooking up" rather then taking me seriously in the relationship aspect in my cocktail outfits, however, when I dress more 'refined' I don't get hit on at all. I am baffled! 

 Answer from Pre-Dating

Dear "Problemista Fashionista":


This is probably one of our most asked questions when it comes to attending our events (what to wear)! The answer is simple, you want to wear something that is not as intimidating as a 'business suit', but also not something that screams 'easy' like a 'Little Black Dress'. 


Sure- skin is great, but the old rule of thumb 'If you got it, flaunt it', doesn't necessarily work to your advantage for either extreme. Many singles choose their outfits for what is going to garner the most attention from the crowd they want to appeal to. For example- if you are going for attention, you may show off some more skin (this goes for men too), however, if you are looking for a more sophisticated look, you may lean towards a suit- which tends to give off an 'I'm better then you' appearance. 


So, for the answer- for Women- A nice blouse complimented by a pair of nice jeans and shoes tends to work well in a social mixer, as you are not showing off too much skin, but at the same time, these choices can compliment the assets you want to accent!


For Men- the best choice is a nice pair of jeans, matched with a button down shirt (that is buttoned appropriately and tucked in) and a nice pair of shoes- not sneakers.  Accessories are great for both genders, but always follow the rule of "less is more" in this area, as too much can take away from your overall look.


By utilizing the above, you are giving off a business casual look, which makes you approachable while not giving off that 'easy' vibe. 




Every Month, Pre-Dating wants to offer you personally selected training courses and/or Books which are offered to help you get the most out of dating in the real world. Please find our special partner offers below!





How to be Irresistable to Men


In this course, learn: 

    - How to attact a great guy!

    - How to make that great guy stay!

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In this course, learn: 

    - How to attract women!

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Roy's Relationship Corner





Valentine's Day is coming and I know you would love to celebrate it with someone special. My life's work as a relationship coach is to support such desires. Unfortunately, I see 7 issues that consistently sabotage people and keep them single.


My new book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, describes these self-sabotaging issues and what to do about them.


This is part three of a series of articles in which I'm addressing each one of the 7 barriers and I'm doing so by sharing an excerpt directly from the book. (If you missed the previous articles, email me at and I'll send them to you.)

One of the sneakiest barriers to attracting lasting love is unconsciously seeing yourself as a victim. Here's how I describe it in the book:


An excerpt from Attracting Lasting Love:


"Imagine that you're in a blockbuster Hollywood movie, but playing just a bit part. You don't have the leading role or even a supporting one. You're just an actor in somebody else's movie. Obviously, you aren't producing, directing, writing or casting the movie. In fact, you don't have a say over anything. You don't get to choose your lines, you don't get to decide who's in a scene with you and you don't get to decide on the plot or what happens. It's not your movie. You're just acting in someone else's movie.


Now, imagine a different scenario. It's the same Hollywood blockbuster, but instead of playing a bit part in someone else's movie, having no control or say over anythingÑthis time it's your movie.


This time, you're the star, playing the leading role, but it goes beyond even that. You're also the producer, director, writer and the casting agent. In other words, you're in charge of everything. You've decided on the plot and its twists because you wrote the script. You are directing every aspect of the movie. As a matter of fact, you've gone out and personally hand-selected all the actors in the movie, especially your co-stars. You've determined their roles, told them when to appear in your movie and for how long, and you've even told them exactly what to do and what to say. In other words, you are in control of absolutely everything. It's your movie.


Life Is Like A Movie


What is your view of life and your role in it? Are you in somebody else's movie, with no power or control over anything, or is this your movie? Are you "at the effect" of someone else's script, casting and direction, or did you choose everyone in your movie, assign them their roles and give them their lines? Have you chosen your life's plot, with all its twists and turns, or has it all just happened to you?


Again, I ask, what is your view of life and your role in it? This is THE core question of the conscious approach.


Is life happening "to you" or "by you"?


How you answer this question will determine if your love life changes or stays stuck in repeating patterns of frustration and pain.


You have the power to choose which one of these two perspectives will govern your life. That's the bottom lineÑit's your choice. You can choose to see yourself as a victim, having no control over the script, or you can choose to see yourself as the creator of your experience, the one who is and has been writing the script.


I am suggesting that you're not a victim, that life is not happening "to you" but "by you," or because of you. This is not somebody else's movie. This is your movie and you're in charge of everything and everyone in itÑpast, present and future. But this is my choice to see life this way. How are you choosing to see life and your role in it?"


If you'd like to learn more about the 7 barriers and how they might be sabotaging your ability to attract lasting love, you can preview and/or purchase the e-book or the paperback by clicking HERE.


Special FREE offer from Pre-Dating's relationship coach, Roy Biancalana:



It is very challenging to find your ideal partner in today's dating scene. That's why Roy and have partnered together to bring you THE ATTRACTION FACTOR VIDEO SERIES absolutely FREE!


In this series of 5 short videos, sent directly to your inbox, Roy will walk you through 5 critical factors that will help you find "the one."


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FREE Dating Teleseminar

Feb. 3rd, 2015

"4 Ways You're Sabotaging Your Love Life"

And Keeping Yourself Single



With Author and Relationship Coach, Roy Biancalana


Tuesday, Feb. 3rd, 2015


8:30PM EST





In this Teleseminar discover how to:

  • Transcend your fear of rejection
  • Complete your past and make space for love
  • Stop attracting repeating patterns
  • Magnetically use your masculine or feminine essence
  • Resolve trust issues and open your heart to love
  • Be irresistible to the opposite sex
  • And much moreÉ


About Our Speaker


Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.


Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.





  • One free 30 Minute Exploratory Coaching Session
  • Special discounts on Roy's many programs
  • And more!

Tuesday, Feb 3rd, 2015


8:30PM EST





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FREE Dating Teleseminar

Feb. 3rd, 2015

"4 Ways You're Sabotaging Your Love Life"

And Keeping Yourself Single



With Author and Relationship Coach, Roy Biancalana


Tuesday, Feb. 3rd, 2015 at 8:30PM EST


Ð Free-





In this Teleseminar discover how to:

  • Transcend your fear of rejection
  • Complete your past and make space for love
  • Stop attracting repeating patterns
  • Magnetically use your masculine or feminine essence
  • Resolve trust issues and open your heart to love
  • Be irresistible to the opposite sex
  • And much moreÉ




Featured Testimonial




I attended a predating event in Louisville in 2008 and met my husband there. We have been married for 5 years


I strongly believe that speed dating is the best singles dating service since it helped me meet my husband. Our paths would never have crossed had it not been for speed dating.


(Louisville, January 2015)  



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 New Cities!

GREAT NEWS!  With the recent addition of Chris in Washington, DC, and Karen in Detroit and Ann Arbor, MI we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).



Please apply online HERE!




We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 


  • Portland, OR
  • Atlanta, GA
  • San Francisco, CA

...And other event locations available!






"Never let a fool kiss you, or a kiss fool you."


- Joey Adams (comedian)








Psychologists at the University of Pennsylvania studied data from over 10,000 speed daters and found that most people make a decision regarding a personÕs attraction within three seconds of meeting.





About Pre-Dating


Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.



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