USA / WEST COAST / CALIFORNIA / SAN FRANCISCO /
ALTA VINA WINE BAR /
AUGUST 26, 2026 7:00 PM
Pre-Dating California LGBTQ+ Singles Event ♥ Meet Local San Francisco Singles
SPECIAL LGBTQ+ EVENT: Speed Dating for GAY / BI San Francisco Men Ages 21-49
LGBTQ+ Singles Event in Oakland , CA
Wednesday August 26, 2026 7:00 PM
Alta Vina Wine Bar 420 3rd Street Oakland Oakland , CA 94607
♥ LGBTQ+ Singles Event in Oakland , CA - it's fun and it works! Meet potential matches the best way - in person, face to face at Alta Vina Wine Bar , ages 21-49. No catfishing, no ghosting, no games, just real people looking to meet someone special.
♥ This event will take place on 'Wine Wednesday' so enjoy deals on wine all night, or enjoy their ciders or soft drinks. Meet up to 15 Gay, Bisexual, and Curious San Francisco men who are ready to connect with someone intriguing. This LGBTQ+ speed dating event for men age 21-49 offers a confident, welcoming space where real chemistry can unfold. Each guest will enjoy 6 minutes of one on one conversation in a warm, and inviting setting designed to make introductions feel natural and relaxed. Join us in Oakland at Alta Vina Wine Bar -- Wine Curious? Youre in the Right Place. No wine snobbery herejust a cozy space to explore, sip, and learn among men who love men. ♥
Pre-Dating offers in-person experiences where you can meet a variety of singles by location, by age, and sometimes we run specialty events. Our company focuses on helping people meet other people, real people and quite often it is a better experience than online dating, bars or dating apps.
The Venue:
Alta Vina Wine Bar in Oakland , CA.
Alta Vina is a cozy, independent wine bar and bottle shop in Oakland's Jack London Square that focuses almost exclusively on small-production California wines. Rather than carrying the big, well-known Napa labels, it highlights artisan winemakers from across the state, making it a great place to discover something new. It's charming and cozy interior makes for a perfect place to unwind and connect with others while savoring a beautiful glass of wine.
San Rafael California Speed Dating for Singles Age 50s/60s
Thursday August 20, 2026 6:15 PM
Mayflower Pub 1533 4th St
San Rafael, CA 94901
WOMEN SOLD OUT | MENS TICKET |
San Rafael California Speed Dating for Singles Age 42-57
Thursday August 20, 2026 8:15 PM
Mayflower Pub 1533 4th St
San Rafael, CA 94901
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
San Jose CA Pre-Dating Speed Dating Event For All Single Professionals Ages 27-42
Tuesday August 25, 2026 6:30 PM
The Old Spaghetti Factory 51 North San Pedro St.
San Jose, CA 95110
| WOMENS TICKET | MEN SOLD OUT |
San Jose CA Pre-Dating Speed Dating Event For All Single Professionals Ages 30s/40s
Tuesday September 8, 2026 6:30 PM
The Old Spaghetti Factory 51 North San Pedro St.
San Jose, CA 95110
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
Alameda Speed Dating for San Francisco Singles Age 34-49 California
Friday September 11, 2026 6:30 PM
Alameda Brewing 1716 Park St,
Alameda, CA 94501
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
Alameda Speed Dating for San Francisco Singles Age 23 - 35 California
Friday September 11, 2026 8:30 PM
Alameda Brewing 1716 Park St,
Alameda, CA 94501
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
Walnut Creek Speed Dating for Singles Age 45+
Sunday September 20, 2026 5:30 PM
Calicraft 2700 Mitchell Dr
Walnut Creek, CA 94598
WOMEN SOLD OUT | MENS TICKET |
Walnut Creek Speed Dating for Singles Age 27 - 45
Sunday September 20, 2026 7:30 PM
Calicraft 2700 Mitchell Dr
Walnut Creek, CA 94598
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
San Jose CA Pre-Dating Speed Dating Event For All Single Professionals Ages 29-39
Tuesday September 22, 2026 6:30 PM
The Old Spaghetti Factory 51 North San Pedro St.
San Jose, CA 95110
| WOMENS TICKET | MENS TICKET |
- Buy a ticket and we'll put you on the event list. Mark your calendar. Dress comfortably but still polished and give yourself time to find the location and park. for our friendly Event Host to welcome you, check you in by name and give instructions.
- You'll talk to up to 12 potential matches, in 6-minute "Pre-Dates." We make the number of men and women as even as possible. Talk about what you like, but keep it light & friendly. Circle who you’d like to speak with again and make a note describing each person (red hair, blue shirt) so you'll remember who's who. Take a picture of the sheet with your phone before you hand it in.
- Within 24-hours of the end of the event we'll text and email you the results. You’ll likely have one or more matches. After that, it’s up to you! Since you’ve had a Pre-Date, your chances of making a more lasting connection are vastly increased.
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Most people tell us how much they enjoyed the event, even if they don't 'make a match' but more than two-thirds of Pre-Daters match with at least one person.We hope to see you at an event soon!
More Questions:
Cathy, Costa Mesa, CA
I had a great time and met a wonderful man.
I attended a pre-dating event for the first time in April. I tried online for a long time but wasn't meeting quality men. I read about speed dating, perhaps it was a better way to meet men. I had a great time that night and met a wonderful man. We both hit it off from the very beginning and we have been dating for 7 weeks. We have fun together and we only live 1/2 mile from each other! I don't know what the future lies for us but if we go our separate ways I will definitely try pre-dating again. Thanks pre-dating!
April in Riverside, CA
I met a guy at the February Pre-Dating
My name is April. I've attended two of your events. I met a guy at the February Pre-Dating. His name is Ronan and we have been dating ever since. We are happy and I've never been so certain of a relationship. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to meet.
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