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Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 29-49 California at Alameda Brewing in Alameda, CA

Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 29-49 California

  Friday October 9, 2026      8:15 PM    

  Alameda Brewing
   1716 Park St,
   Alameda, CA 94501

Speed Dating in Alameda, CA ♥ Ready to meet someone new without the endless swiping? Join us for a lively Speed Dating event at Alameda Brewing, where Bay Area singles ages 2949 can connect in a warm, relaxed, and welcoming atmosphere. Bring a friend and get ready for an evening filled with engaging conversations, genuine chemistry, and positive energy. Youll meet at least 5 and up to 12 local singles who are also excited to find a meaningful connection. Each quick conversation gives you just enough time to break the ice, share a laugh, and see if there is a spark worth exploring. If you feel a connection, simply let us know, and we will gladly take care of the follow-up. Fast-paced, fun, and refreshingly different from the usual dating routine, this is your chance to meet people face-to-face and enjoy the moment. Space is limited, so reserve your ticket today! Why not give it a shot? ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
Walnut Creek Speed Dating for Singles Age 26 - 42 at Calicraft in Walnut Creek, CA

Walnut Creek Speed Dating for Singles Age 26 - 42

  Sunday October 11, 2026      7:30 PM    

  Calicraft
   2700 Mitchell Dr
   Walnut Creek, CA 94598

Speed Dating in Walnut Creek, CA ♥ Ready to step away from the dating apps and meet local singles face-to-face? Join us at Walnut Creek Calicraft Brewing Company for a fun, relaxed Speed Dating experience filled with laughter, conversation, and genuine connection. Meet 5 - 12 local singles through a series of quick mini dates. Each conversation gives you just enough time to break the ice, share a laugh, and see if theres a spark. At the end of the evening, simply share your matches, and we will handle the follow-up. Enjoy the welcoming outdoor atmosphere, spacious beer garden, and onsite food truck while connecting with people who are open to something meaningful. No pressure, no games - just a refreshing way to meet interesting people in person. PLEASE NOTE: This event is held at the large beer garden location, NOT the Calicraft rooftop in downtown Walnut Creek. Reserve your spot today and get ready for an evening of connection and new possibilities! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
San Jose CA Speed Dating For Singles Age 27-42 at The Old Spaghetti Factory in San Jose, CA

San Jose CA Speed Dating For Singles Age 27-42

  Tuesday October 27, 2026      6:30 PM    

  The Old Spaghetti Factory
   51 North San Pedro St.
   San Jose, CA 95110

Speed Dating in San Jose, CA ♥ Ready to meet quality singles ages 2742 in the Bay Area? Join us at The Old Spaghetti Factory in Downtown San Jose for a fun, face-to-face Speed Dating experience! Forget endless texting, awkward apps, and guessing games. Enjoy a series of relaxed mini-dates where you can share a few laughs, have genuine conversations, and discover whether there is a spark. At the end of the evening, simply choose who you would like to see again, and we will take care of the introduction details and logistics. Whether you are newly single, getting back into dating, or hoping to meet someone special, this is an easy and enjoyable way to connect with local singles in person. Your next great match could be just one conversation away. What have you got to lose? Grab your ticket, bring an open mind, and come see who you might meet. You never know where one conversation could lead! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 26-45 California at Alameda Brewing in Alameda, CA

Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 26-45 California

  Friday November 13, 2026      8:15 PM    

  Alameda Brewing
   1716 Park St,
   Alameda, CA 94501

Speed Dating in Alameda, CA ♥ Ready to meet someone new and skip the dating-app routine? Join us for Bay Area Speed Dating at Alameda Brewing, where real conversations and genuine connections take center stage! Gather a friend or come solo and enjoy a lively, welcoming evening with quality local singles who are also ready to connect. Meet 512 potential matches through a series of brief conversations - just enough time to break the ice, share a laugh, and discover if there is actually a spark worth exploring. When you meet someone you would like to see again, simply let us know and well handle the follow-up. It is easy, low-pressure, and refreshingly different from the usual dating routine. Come ready to mingle, laugh, and enjoy an evening filled with positive energy and new possibilities. Space is limited, so reserve your ticket today. Your next great connection could be just one conversation away! Why not give it a try? ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
Oakland Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 23-39 California at Alta Vina Wine Bar in Oakland , CA

Oakland Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 23-39 California

  Wednesday November 18, 2026      8:15 PM    

  Alta Vina Wine Bar
   420 3rd Street Oakland
   Oakland , CA 94607

Speed Dating in Oakland , CA ♥ Ready to meet Bay Area singles ages 23 39 and trade endless swiping for real connection? Join us at Alta Vina Wine Bar for a fun, relaxed evening filled with laughter, conversation, and exciting possibilities! Meet 5 12 local singles through a series of brief mini-dates. Each conversation gives you just enough time to break the ice, discover common interests, and see if there is a spark worth exploring. Enjoy Alta Vinas friendly, social atmosphere, and ask proprietor Henry about the Wine Wednesday specials, including no-corkage offers and other wine deals. At the end of the evening, simply share your matches, and well handle the follow-up. No pressure or games - just genuine face-to-face interaction with people looking for something real. Reserve your spot today and turn an ordinary evening into a memorable one. You never know where one great conversation could lead! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
San Jose CA Pre-Dating Christian Speed Dating Event For All Single Ages 24-39 at The Old Spaghetti Factory in San Jose, CA

San Jose CA Pre-Dating Christian Speed Dating Event For All Single Ages 24-39

  Tuesday December 1, 2026      6:30 PM    

  The Old Spaghetti Factory
   51 North San Pedro St.
   San Jose, CA 95110

Speed Dating in San Jose, CA ♥ SPECIAL EVENT: CHRISTIAN Singles Ages 2439 Your Next Connection Starts Here! Meet San Jose and Silicon Valley singles who share your Christian faith and values! This in-person dating experience makes it easier to connect with like-minded people and discover relationships built on shared beliefs and meaningful conversation. Meet up to 12 local Christian singles in a relaxed, welcoming setting where genuine interaction replaces swiping, endless messaging, and misleading profiles. You will spend 6 minutes with each participant - just enough time to break the ice, sense the chemistry, and see if there is a connection worth exploring. If you find someone you would like to see again, simply let us know. If there is mutual interest, we will help reconnect you after the event. Put down the phone, meet face-to-face, and discover the refreshing difference that shared faith and real conversation can make. One meaningful conversation could be the beginning of something special! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 28-47 California at Alameda Brewing in Alameda, CA

Alameda Speed Dating Event for San Francisco Singles Age 28-47 California

  Friday December 11, 2026      8:15 PM    

  Alameda Brewing
   1716 Park St,
   Alameda, CA 94501

Speed Dating in Alameda, CA ♥ Ready to meet someone new and skip the dating-app routine? Join us for Bay Area Speed Dating at Alameda Brewing, where real conversations and genuine connections take center stage! Come solo or bring a friend for a lively, welcoming evening with local singles who are ready to connect. Meet 5 - 12 potential matches through a series of brief conversations - just enough time to break the ice, share a laugh, and discover if there is a spark worth exploring. Meet someone you would like to see again? Simply let us know, and we will handle the follow-up. It is easy, low-pressure, and refreshingly different from the usual dating routine. Come ready to mingle, laugh, and enjoy an evening filled with positive energy and new possibilities. Space is limited, so reserve your ticket today. Your next great connection could be just one conversation away! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET
Walnut Creek CA Speed Dating for Singles Age 26 - 42 at Calicraft in Walnut Creek, CA

Walnut Creek CA Speed Dating for Singles Age 26 - 42

  Sunday December 13, 2026      7:15 PM    

  Calicraft
   2700 Mitchell Dr
   Walnut Creek, CA 94598

Speed Dating in Walnut Creek, CA ♥ Ready to step away from the dating apps and meet local singles face-to-face? Join us at Calicraft Brewing Company in Walnut Creek for a fun, relaxed Speed Dating experience filled with laughter, conversation, and genuine connection. Meet 5 - 12 local singles through a series of quick mini-dates. Each conversation gives you just enough time to break the ice, share a laugh, and see if there is a spark. At the end of the evening, simply share your matches, and well handle the follow-up. Enjoy the welcoming outdoor atmosphere, spacious beer garden, and onsite food truck while meeting people who are open to something meaningful. No pressure, no games - just a refreshing way to connect in person. Please note: This event is held at the large beer garden location, not the Calicraft rooftop in downtown Walnut Creek. Reserve your spot today and discover where one great conversation could lead! You never know when the special someone will show up! ♥
WOMENS TICKET          MENS TICKET

Is San Jose/Silicon Valley a good place to be single?

San Jose/Silicon Valley has a ton of singles looking to meet. The San Jose/Silicon Valley metro area offers bars, restaurants, sports, and a ton of things to do for singles. Pre-Dating Speed Dating offers one of the best places for singles in San Jose/Silicon Valley to meet other singles. We have great venues where we run our events that are convenient if you want to attend!

Do people really meet at speed dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley is by far one of the best ways to meet other singles in San Jose/Silicon Valley. According to the New York Times you have to look at 100 profiles in online dating to get someone to talk with you. You are likely to meet an average of 2-3 singles for a date by going to speed dating. It's much better odds!

How long is a speed date in Pre-Dating Speed Dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

Our company has perfected the time for speed dating at 6 minutes. There were companies that had speed dating events with 3 minute dates. People felt it was too fast. They also had speed dating at 8 minutes. That was too long. Pre-Dating Speed Dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley at 6 minutes is just right!

What to wear to a speed dating event?

You can't go wrong dressing up for a speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley. The most important thing is appearing to be well dressed and ready to move around if you are a guy. If you are a woman, you typically will be sitting for most of the dates and not moving around. Dress professionally and make sure you are looking great, for that first impression!

At a speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley how many singles will I meet

A typical speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley you will meet an average of 10 singles. This is an average, depending on the popularity of speed dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley, as well as the age range or specialty events. At some events you may meet up to 14 people, but no less than 6.

In San Jose/Silicon Valley what are the typical ages of speed daters?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley is known for a variety of ages from 20s and 30s, to 40s, 50s and 60s+. Each event has an assigned age range to allow you to find a speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley that works for your age!

Where can I sign up for speed dating in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

You can start the process of signing up for an event right on this website by clicking on the mens ticket or womens ticket above. Fill out the form and pay for the event in San Jose/Silicon Valley from the form that pops up!

Should I bring a friend along for my speed date in San Jose/Silicon Valley

You are welcome to bring a friend who is not attending to support you during your speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley. Often speed daters have friends waiting for them at the bar or nearby to give them more support!

What if I do not pick anybody to date at the speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is different than the other speed dating companies. Even if you don't pick anybody, because nobody seemed to be right for you, we still send you a list of people who chose you. You don't have to have a mutual match to find out who likes you at our speed dating events in San Jose/Silicon Valley.

What happens next after a speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

Pre-Dating speed dating ends with all our participants turning in their match sheets. Our company does not rely on all the participants logging in to find out who likes you. Within 24 hours you find out who has chosen you, and they find out who you have chosen. It's up to you to take the next steps!

Should I exchange information with a person at Pre-Dating Event in San Jose/Silicon Valley?

We actually frown on exchanging information at the actual event. If a person likes you, you will find out and get their information via text and email. If you decide you really don't like this person, they already have your personal information, so don't easily give out your cell and email address.

Here are some recommendations if you are going to attend a Pre-Dating speed dating event in San Jose/Silicon Valley:

  • Always try to arrive early and prepare to socialize: By introducing yourself to as many people as possible before the event officially starts, you will make a great impression.
  • Dress to impress: Making sure you are dressed up appropriately, and put effort into your appearance to make a strong first impression is always a plus.
  • Try to be authentic and engaging: Try to ask different questions. Don't just ask about jobs or where people live. Be yourself. Some suggest asking funny or nonsensical questions to break the ice and see if you have chemistry.
  • Ask questions and listen to your date: Try to pay attention to your date's answers and ask follow-up questions. This shows genuine interest and makes you stand out.
  • Flirt and compliment: If you are not good at flirting, try to flirt a little and say something nice to people. Don't be afraid to flirt and offer a genuine compliment to show your interest.
  • Avoid controversial topics: Stay away from subjects like politics or religion. Stick to lighter topics like hobbies and interests.
  • Keep alcohol drinking to a minimum: Have a drink to relax, but keep a number in your mind of when to stop. Do not get drunk. People can tell you are drunk and they will be less interested in you.
  • Stay and socialize: The people who stay after the event ends tend to have more success. While you may have already turned your sheet in, sometimes people change the choices after the event once they have had a chance to get to know you.
  • Follow up strategically: Don't get bogged down in endless messages with your dates. The best answer is to suggest a short phone call and arrange a low-key, fun activity for a first date.

Speed dating events are available in San Jose/Silicon Valley, California often requiring advance registration and featuring a mix of structured one-on-one sessions and casual singles mixers. Events are typically held in public venues and may be organized for specific age ranges or interests like 20s, 30s, singles events over 40 and 50s, and singles events over 50s and 60s or age 60+. We also offer Senior, Christian, Jewish, Holidays and other types of events. To find and participate in an event, you can look for local event listings for San Jose/Silicon Valley here on Pre-Dating.com and register online. Our singles events run on weekends and week nights.

Our dating events in San Jose/Silicon Valley appeal to singles who prefer social groups, and it really is "where to meet singles in San Jose/Silicon Valley"! San Jose/Silicon Valley speed dating reviews will all say our events are well organized and well attended! So don’t wait till our singles events get filled, register today! To read our reviews, check us out on BBB where we have an A+ rating or on Yelp where we have a top rating.

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