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August 2016

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

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• Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
• Pre-Dating is Expanding! 
• Featured Client Review
• Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
• FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "How to Use The Law of Attraction to Find Love Within 30 Days" with Lisa Concepcion
• Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
• Quote of the Month

Pre-Dating Speed Dating Is Expanding!

Are you the "Event Planner" in your group of friends, or, maybe you've got the special "Match Maker" side of you that helps get people together?

If so, we're looking for YOU! We are currently hiring new Event Coordinators in the following cities! 

Phoenix, AZ

Hudson Valley, NY

Charlotte, NC

Boston, MA

North Jersey, NJ

Colorado Springs, CO

Omaha, NB

Chicago, IL

Springfield, MO

Kansas City, MO

Des Moines, IA

Austin, TX

Washington DC

Tallahassee, FL

Baton Rouge, LA

Indianapolis, IN

Honolulu, HI

Naples, FL

Orlando, FL

Minneapolis, MN

Nashville, TN

Miami, FL

Fort Lauderdale, FL

Grand Rapids, MI

Madison, WI

Portland, OR

San Fran, CA

San Jose, CA

Oakland, CA

NYC, NY

Los Angeles, CA

Binghamton, NY

Inland Empire, CA

If you, or someone you know is looking to make some extra money, and having fun while doing it, please fill out the brief application by clicking the link below!

Click HERE to Become a Coordinator! 

Q&A  FORUM:

Questions From Other Singles Like You

Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.

QUESTION #1:

Dear Pre-Dating,

I have been dating someone now for a little over a month. We were "hot and heavy" at first, but now, we see each other maybe once a week, and the text's have slowed from 20+ texts a day, to 4 or 5. In my head, I feel that "He's just not that into me", but I really like him, and I want this to work! HELP! 

Answer from Pre-Dating

Dear "He loves me, he loves me not":

One thing I will say, is this is a common behavior, as far as the reduction in text's and/ or calls after the first few weeks and dates. Especially if you both went out a lot your first few weeks. 

What I do want you to think about though, is not so much the quantity of dates, calls, or texts, but the quality. For example, if he goes from "Good morning gorgeous" or, "Good morning sexy", to "Good Morning Buddy", then I would assume that he's just not that into you. 

Now- this isn't always the case. He may have been hurt before, and is putting up walls. Your best approach to this is having a sit down conversation and discuss what YOU want out of the relationship and what you need to get there. Is this easy to do? Absolutely not! You don't want to be rejected! But what's worse is moving forward with no path or direction. You need to discuss with this person a plan of action. If he is not into it, you will know, and you can decide what you need to do for yourself after that. 

QUESTION #2:

Dear Pre-Dating, 

I am sick of meeting people, developing a great connection, then having them fall off the face of the earth. What gives?! 

Answer from Pre-Dating

Dear "Runaway Bride Victim",

Thank you for your question! This seems to be such a large issue now because of the over-abundance of access singles now have to other local singles. Though the initial thought of online dating was, in theory, a genius idea- what was not expected was for this noble idea to turn into the monster that it has today. 

The "grass is always greener" mentality is rearing it's ugly face more then ever especially when it comes to dating. Between smart phone apps, and the plethora of online dating websites, it is taking people 3-4 times longer to commit to one individual then prior to the internet dating age. 

So- what do you need to do to stand out in the dating pool?

First, and foremost, do not allow yourself to carry the weight of these failed relationship attempts. At the end of the day- would you want to be with someone who didn't see the best in you? Probably not.

Second, focus on friendship first. Do not put the pressure of a romantic relationship on someone initially. Develop a friendship, and see where it goes from there. I recommend going on several coffee dates with people. No pressure, and no large expense. If there is a connection, then follow up and begin developing a friendly relationship.

You see- another thing lost in the internet age seems to be patience. We've become a society of instant gratification. When it comes to relationships- speaking on healthy ones- these don't happen over night. These take time to build. 

I hope this helps sort things out a bit for you.

Roy's Relationship Corner

"What Kind of Partner Are You?

Part 3: Are You Needy?

Are you ready for a real relationship? Though we all want to be in a great relationship, most of us haven't thought about or devoted ourselves to a set of commitments or behaviors that form the foundation for authentic intimacy.

In my relationship coaching practice, I often work with my single clients on 10 different commitments that make them the kind of partner the opposite sex dreams of being with.

We have been discussing these 10 commitments in recent newsletters. (If you want past issues, please email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send the entire series to you.)

In recent months, we've focused on Transparency and Monogamy.Here we talk about Neediness. It's my hope that you'll deeply consider each of these commitments and say to yourself, "This is the way I am going to function in my life."

Commitment #3: Neediness

"I commit to sourcing my aliveness from within. I recognize that I am complete and whole with or without a partner. I commit to not being needy, making my happiness and fulfillment my partner's responsibility."

I wrote an entire book on this subject. A Drink with Legs is my memoir, describing how I believed I needed the attention and affection of a beautiful woman to make me feel worthy, special and masculine. I felt so incomplete and empty on the inside and I believed the answer to such horrible feelings was to find a woman who would complete me.

But Jerry Maguire was full of shit! And until I learned how to recognize my completeness and source my aliveness from within, I put incredible pressure on the women I dated to make me feel ok on the inside. What I learned is that I turned my life partners into life Sources, with a capital "S"! And that made intimacy impossible.

The issue I'm describing is called "Relationship Addiction," and it's the most common, but least recognized, addiction in the world today. Are you brave enough to admit you've been infected with the "you complete me" mindset? Are you going to do something about it?

If so, start by reading my book. Then call me if you want to learn how to recognize your completeness and stop expecting your partner or your relationship to do something it was never intended to do.

This commitment is challenging, and it often creates a lot of questions. So if you want to discuss how to apply this commitment to your particular life situation, please reach out to me and take advantage of the FREE 30-minute coaching session I offer to anyone who wants to explore this or any issue that might be keeping them from attract lasting love. You can reach me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and be sure to visit my website at www.coachingwithroy.com.

Free Gift!

As a way of saying "thank you" for reading this blog post, Roy Biancalana would like to give you a powerful short report called, "The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep You Single." It's absolutely FREE and you can get it now by clicking HERE.

FREE Dating Teleseminar

Sept. 6th, 2016

"How to Use The Law of Attraction to Find Love Within 30 Days"

With Relationship Coach, Lisa Concepcion

Tues., Sept 6th, 2016

8:30PM EST

RSVP HERE NOW!

Your thoughts have power! What you focus on (good or bad) you attract so you must choose wisely. In this teleseminar you'll learn the common thought patterns that keep love from manifesting in your life or, may even jeopardize the love you may currently have. Lisa Concepcion, writer, vlogger, and founder of LoveQuest Marketing, a Miami Florida based personal development firm that offers workshops to help people find give and keep love starting with love of self, believes that we are all on a LoveQuest Journey. Regardless of whether you are single or in a relationship at the core we want to love and be loved.

We are our worst critics and how we think oftentimes is reactionary. Focusing on the truth of what is limits us and leads us to getting comfortable with negative or limiting beliefs about love. In this teleseminar you will learn how to be aware of limiting thinking and instantly pivot and shift to power thinking so that you can harness Law of Attraction to enhance your love life starting with the most important relationship…the one with yourself. The best part is the tools and information you'll learn in this teleseminar can easily be applied to all areas of your life. Money, optimal health, love, career success your thoughts affect all of these areas.

Don't miss this practical tele-seminar where you'll learn…

• The most common sabotaging thoughts about love and relationships and how to shift them to positive thoughts that will bring love to you like a magnet and strengthen the love you already have.
• Understanding unconditional love and the best thing you can say to a new or current partner to go from conditional living to unconditional living.
• Journal prompts and tools to help you to focus and manifest exactly the kind of love life you want and deserve.
• How to build mental momentum to attract love (or shift the love you have to a far better place) within 30 days.

 
***PLUS RSVP NOW TO RECEIVE THIS FREE BONUS***

• One free 30 Minute Exploratory Coaching Session
• Special discounts from on Lisa's many programs
• And more!

Tuesday, Sept 6th, 2016

8:30PM EST

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Featured Testimonial

Hi Angie

I am writing to thank you for providing an amazing service. I attended the event on March 7th and met a wonderful man, Marlon, and we've been dating ever since. It was my first speed dating experience and it was so much fun! Thank you for creating such a magical space, for facilitating my meeting some really wonderful people and for leading me to a man who I am now creating a future with. I have referred all of my single friends to your site and will continue to do so!!! Best wishes with your business!!!

Love,

Ellixandrea

Orange County, CA

April, 2016

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QUOTE OF THE MONTH

"Choose a wife rather by your ear than your eye."

- Thomas Fuller (Churchman)

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

If a woman offers to pay for everything, chances are she isn't that into the date. There's an unspoken understanding that a man paying for everything is a form of "copulatory gift," which is almost universal in all animal species.

SOURCE:

 https://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html

About Pre-Dating

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

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