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IN THIS NEWSLETTER:
Sent to over 180,000 Single Professionals!
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Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
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Pre-Dating is Expanding!
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Featured Client Review
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Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
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FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "Fast, Deep and Sexy: Where to Approach and What to Say to the Opposite Sex" with Roy Biancalana
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Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
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Quote of the Month
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Q&A FORUM:
Questions From Other Singles Like You
Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.
If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.
QUESTION #1:
Dear Pre-Dating,
I go on date, after date, after date with many different people, but just can't seem to find "the one". What am I doing wrong?
Answer from Pre-Dating
Dear "Serial Dater":
Look, dating is simply a numbers game. You're not doing anything wrong, unless of course your standards are too high. Many people fall into this "cycle" of dating people to only find that they're looking for all the wrong qualities, and overlooking someone because they may not fit the "picture perfect" match.
So, how do you break this cycle? First, you need to back off dating for a bit.
Now, Begin to focus your attention back on you. Begin doing things you once loved to do that you haven't had time to get into. Do you like to bike ride? Paint? Garden? Start getting back into those things you once enjoyed, and explore the local social aspects of these things. For example, is there a gardening club? Or a bikers club? Maybe a "Run for Brews" team you can join! Depending on your area, there may be social outlets where you can meet other people that share similar interests.
Journal! You want to start off by setting a list of 10 things you're looking for in someone and a list of 10 non-negotiable's. Out of those 20 items, start narrowing down to 3-4 on both list. These are going to be the 3 character values you cannot live without, and the 3 things you just cannot, no matter what, stand to tolerate in a romantic relationship. After this, you will want to write daily about what you are looking for. Journal your thoughts on a daily basis too- it helps get them out of your head and on paper to keep focused on your goals for that day, week, or month.
Set your focus on doing things you enjoy. Once you find a social groups that incorporate your interests, you will find that finding someone that peaks your interest much easier.
QUESTION #2:
Dear Pre-Dating,
I have come to a few events, and have not gotten picked! I am an attractive guy, I have a great job, and I consider myself a nice and easygoing person. What gives?!
Answer from Pre-Dating
Dear "Unlucky":
Great Question! I do have a few questions to ask you- what do you talk about? Is the conversation mostly revolving around you? How do you dress? And finally, what is your tonality? Let me break this down for you question by question, in hopes that we can find out exactly what is occurring here.
Let's start off with the question of what you talk about and if the conversation is mostly revolving around you. The reason I ask this, is the question you presented completely revolves around you and how great you are. No doubt you are a great guy, but people don't necessarily want to hear you gloat about yourself for 6 minutes- it's a HUGE turn off. The first thing you should do when you sit down with one of your daters, is compliment a certain physical trait about them, even if they are not your type; Look for something they obviously worked on. For example, if their hair looks great, or their makeup is well done, you might say something like "Wow, you look great tonight, your hair looks so healthy". This might sound a bit corny, however, you have immediately engaged this person by 1) complimenting them, 2) increasing their confidence, 3) sparked an interesting topic of conversation. Put yourself in the other persons shoes and think of how you would feel if you were on the receiving end of your conversation.
Now, how do you dress/ present yourself? Remember, as people, we make a physical judgment within 3 seconds of meeting someone. So, if you are not 'dressed to impress' or might still be 'living in the 90's' with your elastic waistband khaki's and Hawaiian button down, you might give off a bad first impression. If you are oblivious to the current fashion trends, I recommendasking for help. Most dept. stores have fashion experts that can help you reinvent your look. Go to a higher-end salon and have them give you a new hairstyle that is both appropriate for your age and professional stature.
Lastly, what is your tonality when you are talking to someone? Most people do not know what they sound like when they talk. In fact, recently, I helped a fellow dater who was having the same problem as you! They were not getting any matches, however, the look was right, the subject matter was dead on, but his tonality was BORING. It was like listening to Ben Stein. What I recommended to him was to take a tape recorder and record his conversations through out a day in his normal life. He called me back the following day in horror, "I DO sound boring". He worked on this for some time, came back to an event, and to his surprise, he matched with every single lady at the event. Tonality is one of the most important aspects of communication. You may think you sound GREAT, but in reality, you may be giving the wrong impression just by the tone of your verbal delivery.
All that being said, the most important piece of knowledge I can share with you is "Be yourself"! Sure, change a few things here and there in order to better yourself, but do not be too dramatic about it. You may need a little polish, but you certainly do not need to change who you are.
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Roy's Relationship Corner
"What Kind of Partner Are You?
Part 4: Are You Evolving?
Are you ready for a real relationship? Though we all want to be in a great relationship, most of us haven't thought about or devoted ourselves to a set of commitments or behaviors that form the foundation for authentic intimacy.
In my relationship coaching practice, I often work with my single clients on 10 different commitments that make them the kind of partner the opposite sex dreams of being with.
We have been discussing these 10 commitments in recent newsletters. (If you want past issues, please email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send the entire series to you.)
In recent months, we've focused on Transparency, Monogamy and Neediness. Here we talk about Evolving. It's my hope that you'll deeply consider each of these commitments and say to yourself, "This is the way I am going to function in my life."
Commitment #4: Evolution
"I commit to staying in a committed relationship with my partner as long as it's furthering our individual evolution and opening us both to a deeper realization of God."
Sometimes relationships turn out to be detrimental to one or both of the people in them. People can be abusive, controlling, irresponsible, addicted, unfaithful, secretive or simply unwilling to participate fully in the relationship or in life itself.
Everyday, the question at the center of your life should be this: Is this relationship (or anything I'm involved in) furthering my individual evolution as a human being? Is it enlivening, enriching and empowering my creativity? Is it opening me to a deeper realization of myself and God? Am I becoming a better person because of the relationship or is it making me worse or holding me back in some way?
If you are not growing and evolving because of your relationship (or anything else in your life), the relationship must and should end. Your priority must be your growth in consciousness, and a healthy relationship will produce that effect. If it isn't, it's not the right relationship for either of you.
This commitment is challenging, and it often creates a lot of questions. So if you want to discuss how to apply this commitment to your particular life situation, please reach out to me and take advantage of the FREE 30-minute coaching session I offer to anyone who wants to explore this or any issue that might be keeping them from attract lasting love. You can reach me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and be sure to visit my website at www.coachingwithroy.com.
Free Gift!
As a way of saying "thank you" for reading this blog post, Roy Biancalana would like to give you a powerful short report called, "The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep You Single." It's absolutely FREE and you can get it now by clicking HERE.
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FREE Dating Teleseminar
Oct. 4th, 2016
"Fast, Deep & Sexy"
Where to go, how to approach and what to say to the opposite sex
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Tues., Oct 4th, 2016
8:30PM EST
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The most challenging aspect of dating is often the very beginning. In this powerful tele-seminar, #1 best-selling author and relationship coach, Roy Biancalana, will share practical wisdom on how to meet high quality people and get a relationship off to a healthy start. In Roy's talk, you will learn:
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The best places to meet YOUR ideal partner
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FREE Dating Teleseminar
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The most common ways people sabotage the first encounter
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Featured Testimonial
Hi Angela
Rick and I met at speed dating in 2014. We were married in Hawaii in July 2016. Thank you, Angela for introducing us.
Sincerely,
Deb
Albuquerque, NM
Sept, 2016
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QUOTE OF THE MONTH
"You can't keep changing men, so you settle for changing your lipstick."
Heather Locklear (Actress)
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CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH
In American society, when a man offers his date his palm face up, he is most likely deeply attracted to the woman. In fact, a human's brain is wired to respond to hand gestures and hand shapes, though the brain's response depends on the man or woman's culture and ethnicity.
SOURCE:
https://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html
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