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  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "Hints, Tricks and Tips for Creating Your Online Dating Profile" with Dr Nancy H. Wall
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

 

 

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Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Dear Pre-Dating, 

 

I have been single for about 10 years now, and have not really had the best luck in finding the right one. Every woman I meet I find something wrong with them and just cannot seem to settle down. All of my friends are married, and they're telling me I am too picky. Thoughts? 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Eligible Bachelor",

 

Oh, I do love this question, as it is one I have answered many times and have helped people develop realistic expectations. 

Let's first discuss the reasons why you feel as though no one you have met are your "ideal match". In a 10 year time frame, depending on your area, I am guessing that would equate to a minimum of 100 women you have had the opportunity to meet (I am being conservative here). Do you have a list of qualities you are looking for in a woman? How long is this list, and is this list truly realistic. A lot can change in 10 years, and that list should have changed from your younger years to now. 

 

Would you date yourself? This is often a question I ask many clients who tend to be picky when it comes to dating. I truly want you to think about this, and really ask yourself if you are someone that other people would be interested in dating. After you ponder this, you may realize with that statement alone that your expectations may be off a bit. 

 

Your homework- I would like for you to create 2 lists- on paper. You will want to write down 20 non- negotiable traits (Ex: drinker, smoker, sloppy, etc). Once you have completed that list, you will want to take the second list and write down 20 traits you are looking for in a woman (ex: active lifestyle, couch potato, domestic goddess, etc). Now- on list 2, avoid physical attributes as much as possible, as will want to avoid cluttering the list with things like "Big boobs", "Nice ass", blue eyes, etc- all things you may want, but should be negotiable if there is chemistry between two people. 

 

Now, take these two lists, and start crossing off things you can in fact deal with until your list contains 5 non-negotiable and 5 traits you are looking for. 

 

So, you now have a much more condensed list of things you're looking for and things you cannot deal with. This is step one, step two is to meet some more women and try to look past the menial things and focus on exploring the good that one of these ladies can bring into your life. 

 

Please follow up with us and let us know how this worked for you!

 

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Dear Pre-Dating,

 

I have come to a few events, and have not gotten picked! I am an attractive guy, I have a great job, and I consider myself a nice and easygoing person. What gives?!

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Unlucky":

 

Great Question! I do have a few questions to ask you- what do you talk about? Is the conversation mostly revolving around you? How do you dress? And finally, what is your tonality? Let me break this down for you question by question, in hopes that we can find out exactly what is occurring here.

 

Let's start off with the question of what you talk about and if the conversation is mostly revolving around you. The reason I ask this, is the question you presented completely revolves around you and how great you are. No doubt you are a great guy, but people don't necessarily want to hear you gloat about yourself for 6 minutes- it's a HUGE turn off. The first thing you should do when you sit down with one of your daters, is compliment a certain physical trait about them, even if they are not your type; Look for something they obviously worked on. For example, if their hair looks great, or their makeup is well done, you might say something like "Wow, you look great tonight, your hair looks so healthy". This might sound a bit corny, however, you have immediately engaged this person by 1) complimenting them, 2) increasing their confidence, 3) sparked an interesting topic of conversation. Put yourself in the other persons shoes and think of how you would feel if you were on the receiving end of your conversation.

 

Now, how do you dress/ present yourself? Remember, as people, we make a physical judgment within 3 seconds of meeting someone. So, if you are not 'dressed to impress' or might still be 'living in the 90's' with your elastic waistband khaki's and Hawaiian button down, you might give off a bad first impression. If you are oblivious to the current fashion trends, I recommendasking for help. Most dept. stores have fashion experts that can help you reinvent your look. Go to a higher-end salon and have them give you a new hairstyle that is both appropriate for your age and professional stature.

 

Lastly, what is your tonality when you are talking to someone? Most people do not know what they sound like when they talk. In fact, recently, I helped afellow dater who was having the same problem as you! They were not getting any matches, however, the look was right, the subject matter was dead on, but his tonality was BORING. It was like listening to Ben Stein. What I recommended to him was to take a tape recorder and record his conversations through out a day in his normal life. He called me back the following day in horror, "I DO sound boring". He worked on this for some time, came back to an event, and to his surprise, he matched with every single lady at the event. Tonality is one of the most important aspects of communication. You may think you sound GREAT, but in reality, you may be giving the wrong impression just by the tone of your verbal delivery.

 

All that being said, the most important piece of knowledge I can share with you is "Be yourself"! Sure, change a few things here and there in order to better yourself, but do not be too dramatic about it. You may need a little polish, but you certainly do not need to change who you are. 

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

One of the reasons my newest book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, has become a #1 best-seller on Amazon is because in the book I present a new and radical way of dating and relating, something I call, The Dating Manifesto.

 

The Dating Manifesto is a call to change the culture of dating. It's a challenge to stop playing games and date consciously. So in The Dating Manifesto, I describe 7 commitments of conscious dating. And as I said, they're radical. But when you align your life with the 7 commitments, magic happens. Drama ends and love blooms. The Dating Manifesto is a blueprint for conscious dating and they will help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship.

 

I'm going to share one of the 7 commitments in each of the next seven newsletters. (If you miss any of them, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

Now, in order to make this fun, I'm not only going to present each of the 7 conscious commitments, but I'm also going share their evil twins, or their opposites. Unfortunately, these counter-commitments describe "the game," how most people normally date. Choosing the conscious commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting lasting love.

 

So far, we've discussed Responsibility and Curiosity. The 3rd commitment in The Dating Manifesto is Authenticity. Here's how I describe it.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #3: Authenticity

 

I commit to revealing rather than concealing, meeting each dating experience with complete candor and authenticity, openly and honestly sharing my thoughts, concerns, wants and feelings.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people date …

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT #3: Concealing

 

I commit to playing games by misleading or deceiving the people I date, withholding or concealing my truth (including facts, feelings, concerns, wants, things I imagine) and speaking in a way that allows me to avoid, control or manipulate an outcome.

 

I have yet to meet a person who wants to be in a relationship with a "concealer." Everyone wants an open, honest and candid partner. But rarely do I meet someone who's willing—I mean truly willing—to be candid themselves. Knowing that the Law of Attraction means "like attracts like," you must be willing to be candid if you want a partner who is candid. You always attract after your own kind.

 

The simple truth is this: In our love lives, we are either motivated by Fear or Love. Those are the only two choices. If we're coming from Fear, we conceal in order to control, and, if we're coming from Love, we reveal in order to relate. Which path will you choose?

 

If your love life is not satisfying, then take advantage of The Attracting Lasting Love Complimentary Coaching Session™. It's a 30-minute free conversation where I help you discover the primary issue that's keeping you single and what to do about it. Email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call me at 407-687-3387 to set up an appointment.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar

December 1st 2015

 

"Hints, Tricks and Tips for Creating Your Online Dating Profile!"

 

 

With Certified MatchMaker and Relationship Coach, Dr. Nancy H. Wall

 

Tuesday, Dec. 1st, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Let Dr. Nancy H. Wall help you increase your odds of successful online dating!


From creating your online dating profile, to navigating and messaging, and leading up to that first meeting!

Tune into this important teleseminar and you will learn how to evaluate:

 

  • Your Photos-  make it or break it!
  • Your Basic Stats- are what they are!
  • Your Essays- seal the deal!
  • Your Search Criteria and Etiquette- are decisive!
  • The Real Deal- is the First Date!

 

About Our Speaker- Dr. Nancy H. Wall

Dr. Nancy H. WallIs a certified Life Coach and Matchmaker, is President and Founder of Tampa Bay MatchMakers.   She is passionate about helping singles connect, and through her targeted relationship advice and singles' introductions, numerous life-long partnerships and marriages have resulted. 
 
Dr. Wall has dedicated herself personally and professionally to help others discover and create what they want most from their lives and relationships.  As a noted international speaker, she has inspired thousands of singles and couples.  She has been seen on ABC Action News, TampaBays10, My Fox 13, and featured in the St. Petersburg Times, duPont REGISTRY, South Tampa Magazine, and Tampa Bay Wellness.
 
Dr. Wall earned her PhD in Adult Education from the University of South Florida, an MBA from Crummer Graduate School/Rollins College, a BS in Psychology from Duke University, and holds certifications in Matchmaking from the Matchmaking Institute in New York, Life Coaching from Coach Training Alliance, and Project Management from George Washington University.
 
For more information, visit her website at www.TampaBayMatchMakers.com, or contact her directly at Nancy@TampaBayMatchMakers.com or (813) 907-0410.

 

 


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FREE Dating Teleseminar

Dec. 1st, 2015

"Hints, Tricks and Tips for Creating Your Online Dating Profile!"

 

 

With Certified Match Maker and Relationship Coach, Dr. Nancy H. Wall

 

Tuesday, Dec. 1st, 2015 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Learn to Evaluate:

  • Your Photos-  make it or break it!
  • Your Basic Stats- are what they are!
  • Your Essays- seal the deal!
  • Your Search Criteria and Etiquette- are decisive!
  • The Real Deal- is the First Date!

  

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

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QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"I'm currently single, so I want to have fun! As for what guys need to do to date out of their league, it's all about the swagger. If you have confidence, you can get pretty much any girl."

 

-Krysten Ritter (Actress)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

Statistics show that trying to get a relationship to work with an ex doesn't usually work. The case where it might work is if there were extenuating circumstances of the breakup, such as one of couple had been going through a family tragedy or moved.

 

SOURCE:

 http://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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