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May 2014

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 135,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Special Partner Offer for both Men and Women!
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "

    The 5 Things you MUST DO Right Now if you are DATING FOR MARRIAGE!

    with Guest Speaker, Amy Schoen
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you’ll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

QUESTION #1:

 

Dear Pre-Dating,

 

I found someone GREAT! But he is ready to get married, while I enjoy dating him casually and go back and forth between doubt and excitement, HELP!

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "On the Fence":

 

Ok, so you found someone who wants to settle down, GREAT! But what's that?! You aren't ready?! This is a NORMAL feeling (It's called cold feet)! You have been enjoying your casual dating, and BAM! You are at a crossroad, and you think to yourself, "I can either settle down, or try to find someone else, possibly better then this person."

 

Here is where you have to be completely honest with the person you are dating and tell them EXACTLY how you feel. In every relationship, especially in the beginning, both partners should sit down and discuss the items that they enjoy about the other person and the items that drive them crazy. These thoughts should be shared in a constructive way to inform the person of their good and bad qualities as it relates to you. At the end of this conversation, you should be at a point of pure honesty and you both need to evaluate, either together or separately, if this is a worthwhile venture. More often then not, couples that do this excercise realize that settling down with this person is probably the right path for them afterall. You notice that your list of good far out weighs the bad. And hey, they got issues with you too!

 

Of course sometimes your list of bad may outweigh the good and your path becomes clear as well but as the song says "breaking up is hard to do" and most people tend to stay longer in relationships than they know they should.

 

In short- be honest with yourself, but don't shortchange yourself. Remember what your mother told you growing up, "the grass is not always greener on the other side."

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

I have attended your events in the past, and I have to say, they are GREAT fun, however, is 6 minutes really enough time? Sometimes I feel rushed. 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Rushed",

 

Have you ever been on an amazing date and you both cannot seem to get enough of each other and you end up ticking off the waiters at the restaurant because it is after hours and you both are not done talking yet (Yea, we've all done it!)? Or, maybe a horrible date, and it feels like the time goes by at a snails pace? 

 

This is why we limit the time to 6 minutes! Sometimes the time flies, but other times you feel like you are pulling teeth to just get a response from the other party.

 

Studies show, it takes 30 seconds for there to be a sexual attraction, for the remaining 5 minutes and 30 seconds, you may find that the person is not only attractive but has a WONDERFUL personality to boot! Or not, but that's why we like to limit the time to 6- minutes! NEXT! 

 

 

SPECIAL PARTNER OFFERS!

 

Every Month, Pre-Dating wants to offer you personally selected training courses which are offered to help you get the most out of dating in the real world. Please find our special partner offers below!

 

 

So let it be written, so let it be done.

Ladies: 

 

 

How to Make Him Desire You!

 

In this video, learn how to: 

    - How to make a man fall head over heals for you

    - How to keep his attraction

    - How to trigger the impulsive part of his mind

    - and much more!

 

CLICK HERE to learn MORE!

 

Gentleman:

 

 

Make Small Talk Sexy! How to Ignite Attraction!

 

In this video, learn how to:

    - Make everyday small-talk enticing to women

    - Turn a small conversation into a potential relationship

    - How to make her crave your attention.

    - and much more! 

 

CLICK HERE to learn MORE!

 

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Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

As an author, relationship coach and Orlando TV personality who works exclusively with single people who wish to attract their ideal partners, I'm challenging single people everywhere to adopt the 7 commitments that make up what I call, The Conscious Dating Manifesto.

 

Last month we covered Conscious Commitment #1, which was about taking responsibility and shunning the victim mentality. It's THE most important one of them all and if you missed it, please email me and I'll send it to you (roy@coachingwithroy.com).

 

The second conscious commitment is about Curiosity, and as I did last month, I'm going to explain it, but I'm also going share its "evil twin," the opposite of the commitment. Choosing the commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting your ideal partner.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #2:

 

Curiosity

 

I commit to meeting every dating experience with curiosity, seeing each person and interaction as an opportunity to learn and grow in self-awareness.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people live…

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT#2:

 

Certainty

 

I commit to being certain that my stories and perspectives are true. I commit to being right. I commit to being defensive, especially when I am sure that I'm RIGHT.

 

People often ask me, "Roy, since you work with single people, helping them to find the love of their lives, what's your success rate?" The answer is always the same: "It's 100% and 0%. It's 100% when a client is truly curious as to how they are creating their reality through their beliefs, attitudes, energy and unconscious commitments. When they're curious and open to learning, they make profound discoveries and quickly find their ideal partners.

 

But my success rate is 0% when a client is certain that it's someone else's fault, and therefore, they are not open to deep self-exploration. In that case, their certainty keeps them locked in repetitive patterns and painful experiences.

 

"Aha moments" are the portals to profound change and they only happen in an atmosphere of genuine curiosity and openness to learning. Yet when we are sure that our opinions, stories and perspectives are true and right, we close ourselves off from learning, and consequently, we keep ourselves stuck.

 

If you have questions about this commitment, send me a note at roy@coachingwithroy.com, and if you'd like to learn more about me and my coaching practice, click those links.

 

 

Special FREE Offer from Roy Biancalana:

 

 

I know how challenging, and even how depressing it can be to find your ideal partner in today's frenzied and disconnected world. That's why I've partnered with Pre-Dating.com to bring you my popular video-based eCourse, "The Attraction Factor Video Series"absolutely FREE.

 

You'll learn what the 5 Critical Factors in Finding "The One". It's a $100 value, but it's free to all Pre-Dating clients this week.

 

CLICK HERE to start your free eCourse.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar:

 

"The 5 Things you MUST DO Right Now if you are DATING FOR MARRIAGE!"

 

 

 

 

With Relationship Coach and Author, Amy Schoen 

~FREE~

 

Tuesday, June 10th, 2014

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Are you looking to find the man or woman of your dreams with the goal of getting married someday? Dating can sometimes be a long, tiring process as you weed through the crowd to connect with that special person for love. Finding the right one that is marriage minded may seem nearly impossible.

Join us for a live webinar to hear Amy Schoen who is a relationship life coach who helps marriage-minded singles find and solidify true love. She'll be sharing some of her dating secrets to help you on your journey to find fulfilling, committed love.

 

 

In this FREE Teleseminar, you will learn:

  • The 3 things you need to pay attention to make sure you are choosing the right person to date.
  • How to recognize someone who is on the same time wave-length as you so you won't waste your precious time with a relationship not going anywhere.
  • The biggest mistake many daters make that prevent them from developing a real relationship leading to committed love.
  • The top 3 ways you are most likely to meet your Motivated to Marry partner
  • The #1 thing you must do within a month's time of dating to save yourself months (and even years) of your precious time.

About our Speaker

 

Amy Schoen specializes in helping marriage-minded people create lifelong relationships and build the family lives they desire. As a Certified Professional Life Coach, Amy combines her life coaching, incredible life experience, and gift for visualization to help clients connect with the Right One to find committed relationships that align with their values, goals, and desire for family.

Amy's proprietary Motivated to Marry® Dating Secrets Coaching Program guides people to find love without changing who they are, and her clients experience exceptional results.  After divorcing her first husband in her mid 30's, Amy married her second husband Alan at 42 and then after struggling with infertilityfor several years, she gave birth to their son.

Amy has appeared in The New York Times, the Washington Post, the Washington Business Journal, the Gazette Newspapers, CBS radio, WUSA TV, WASH FM, and WMET AM. She is also the author of "Get It Right This Time – How to Find and Keep Your Ideal Romantic Partner" and "30 Very Good Reasons NOT to Get Married Until You Are 30!"  Learn more at http://www.motivatedtomarry.com

 
***PLUS RSVP NOW TO RECEIVE THIS FREE BONUS***

  • The Motivated to Marry Dating Secrets Dating Plan Template (Value $100).  This is the same plan that Coach Amy utilizes with her private coaching clients. (www.mtmgift.com) PLUS the Motivated to Marry Dating Secrets eCourse: 7 Secrets to Finding Your True Love Partner.

  • Discounts on Amy's Coaching Club!

Tuesday, June 10th, 2014

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

 


 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

May 6th, 2014

 

"The 5 Things you MUST DO Right Now if you are DATING FOR MARRIAGE!"

 

With Relationship Coach and Author, Amy Schoen 

 

Tuesday, June 10th, 2014 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this FREE Teleseminar, you will:

 

  • The 3 things you need to pay attention to make sure you are choosing the right person to date.
  • How to recognize someone who is on the same time wave-length as you so you won't waste your precious time with a relationship not going anywhere.
  • The biggest mistake many daters make that prevent them from developing a real relationship leading to committed love.
  • The top 3 ways you are most likely to meet your Motivated to Marry partner
  • The #1 thing you must do within a month's time of dating to save yourself months (and even years) of your precious time.

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Featured Testimonial

 

 

Hi Julie

 

Kristani here. Interestingly, at the same time my beloved Luis was e-mailing you, I was looking for your contact info to do the same thing! Not only do great minds think alike but my Twin Flame and I are finding synchronicity of timing to be an everyday occurrence between the two of us :)

And like Luis, my life has not been the same since Thursday, January 30th when we met at the Speed Dating event you hosted.

That night I was blessed to meet the most incredible man with whom I have a soul connection unlike any I've experienced before.

Our relationship (having been going strong for 3 months now) continues to bring me much happiness and fulfillment. I can't imagine my world without him.

That night when you and I walked to our cars together after Speed Dating was over, I remember telling you that Luis seemed like he was an old-fashioned gentleman who still believed in chivalry which was the sort of man I was looking for. You said I was right. Well, he has turned out to be that and so much more! He is a real, live hero with a heart as big as this planet.

I am eternally grateful for the opportunity your event provided Luis and I. But more importantly, I am appreciative for your personal presence at that event. Your genuine care and desire to bring potential couples together is to be commended.

I want to thank you for being you and for doing what you do!

Sincerely,

Kristani
(West Palm Beach, April 2014)  

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

 New Pre-Dating.com Cities!


GREAT NEWS!  With the recent addition of Serena in Akron,  we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).

 

 

Please apply online HERE!

 

(http://www.pre-dating.com/coordinator.php3)

 

We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Atlanta, GA
•    Portland, OR

•    Baton Rouge, LA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"You know, the man of my dreams might walk round the corner tomorrow. I'm older and wiser and I think I'd make a great girlfriend. I live in the realm of romantic possibility."

 

-Stevie Nicks (Singer/ Songwriter)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

 

 

You can't put a timeline on a relationship, and there's no telling when exclusivity is right for you, but according to a study from Lisa Daily, most couples get into an "exclusive" relationship after 6 to 8 dates.

 

SOURCE: http://thoughtcatalog.com/nico-lang/2013/08/29-eye-opening-dating-facts-that-will-change-the-way-you-view-relationships/

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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