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July 2015

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 170,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "The Sexually Intelligent Single Adult" with Guest Speaker, Roy Biancalana
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

 

 

Pre-Dating to Supply You with More Valuable Advice!

 

Watch for emails from Pre-Dating.NET

 

For quite awhile, many of the single professionals who receive our event emails and monthly newsletter have been asking for MORE. Asking for Dating and Relationship tips and useful information and resources to help them in today's hectic and often confusing dating environment.

 

In the coming weeks, as a benefit to being on our list, you'll start getting a dating and relationships tips / resources email direct to your inbox multiple times a week. You'll be able to discontinue receiving that valuable content any time you want. Although some people may opt-out once they enter into a relationship, the emails you'll be receiving will have a solid amount of relationship advice for newly coupled people as well.

 

Keep an eye on your inbox for our separate, free, Dating & Relationship email series from pre-dating.net (our events are on pre-dating.com as usual, the .net is for our advice site)!

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

Do you host event for the LGBT community, and if so, are they successful? 

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "LGBT Community",

 

First of all, congratulations on the big win last month! Pre-Dating speed dating has always believed in equality for all, and yes, we do host LGBT events in cities where we have a good number of interested people. 

 

That said, it is important for those of you who are interested in such speed dating events to help out our local event coordinators to bring these events to your community. Many of our E.C.'s are eager to host these events, but we need your help! If we don't have a database that supports hosting an LGBT event, we simply cannot do it on our own. 

 

If you are interested in such an event to occur in your city, please reach out to your local event coordinator and see what kind of collaboration we can work out to get these events up and going in your area.

   


QUESTION #2:

 

Dear Pre-Dating,

 

I really want to try one of your upcoming events, but I have a set criteria for women I would want to date. I am nervous that I will not meet anyone who fits into my standards, thus wasting my time. What type of women tend to attend your events?

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Mr. Picky":

 

The greatest part about speed dating is you never know who you are going to meet! The one thing you do know, is that the people you are going to meet are within a certain age range, and that they are local single professionals. The next greatest thing is,if the person you are talking to is not a fit, it's only 6 minutes, simply make the most of it and move on.

 

Now, per your 'criteria', as any true match maker will tell you, the first step of finding your best soulmate is to toss out your 50-point inspection list. We aren't buying a car here, we are looking for someone who is compatible with you. 

 

Step 2 to finding 'that someone special', is to narrow your list of criteria to 3 absolute "No's". For example, if you refuse to date a smoker, or you refuse to date someone who is not as athletically inclined as you, or maybe it's that you want to find someone who is financially stable enough to where you don't need to worry about carrying their weight. Whatever the 3 are, you now you have a reasonable set of expectations that you are willing to seek out in someone. 

 

As men, we tend to also focus on the aesthetic components of everything, from cars, to homes, and to our potential love interests. It's human nature to do this, but you need to be realistic with your expectations as well. Do not sell yourself short by only looking at physical beauty. Some of the best matches that come out of any dating service are made due to both parties reevaluating what is important when seeking out a potential partner.

   

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

In my new book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, I go into great detail on masculine/feminine dynamics because misunderstanding these energies is one of the major barriers to attracting lasting love.

 

Two months ago, I compared the masculine to New York City because it has "go" energy and I compared the feminine to Hawaii because it has "flow" energy. In last month's newsletter I focused on one facet of the feminine (playfulness) that makes her irresistible to the masculine. (If you missed that article or any of the other six in this series, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

 

Now in this month's newsletter, it's the men's turn. I want to share an excerpt from my book that describes one of the three aspects of the divine masculine that makes him trustable and irresistible to the feminine. Here's how I describe a man's "clarity of consciousness" in the book:

 

An excerpt from Attracting Lasting Love:

 

"In the popular TV show, Shark Tank, aspiring entrepreneurs pitch their products to a group of multi-millionaires hoping that one of the 5 "Sharks" will believe in them enough to not only invest money in their venture, but actually become business partners with them.

 

Now, the 5 multi-millionaires (and billionaire, in the case of Mark Cuban) are not called "Sharks" for nothing. They ruthlessly evaluate the entrepreneurs that come on the show, and if they can't clearly articulate their business plan, their marketing strategy and their financial condition, the sharks tear them to shreds and refuse to do business with them. However, when the entrepreneurs can demonstrate that they know what they want to do and how they plan to do it, the Sharks actually fight with one another, and even try to outbid each other for the opportunity to go into business with the entrepreneur.

 

Guys, that's EXACTLY what's happening every time you meet a woman. Whether you know it or not (and most guys don't), she is just like those Sharks, evaluating whether or not she should "invest" in you and become your "business partner." If you can clearly articulate who you are, what you're doing with your life and how you plan to get there, she'll basically throw herself at you, just like the Sharks do. But if you can't demonstrate where your life is headed and how you plan to get there, she will refuse to do "business" with you.

 

Radiant women are looking for men with what I call, Clarity of Consciousness. Yes, chemistry is important to them, but what they're really interested in is how well you are living your entire life—financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. She wants to know if you have your shit together, what your goals are and what your plan is to achieve them. Why would she want to be a part of a life not being lived well, for when it comes right down to it…

 

A woman wants to know if she can trust you with her life

 

Yes, she can take care of herself, and yes, she has her own goals—a radiant woman is no "damsel in distress"—but in reality, being your woman means she's putting her life in your hands. Even if she makes more money than you, she longs to relax in the demonstration of your direction, which extends to every part of your life. Do you get that? If you aren't navigating your life with clarity, integrity and intentionality, if you can't articulate why you're alive and what you're trying to do with your one and only life, why in hell would she hook up with you? She'd be a fool, wouldn't she? And radiant women are not fools.

 

Do you want to know why most men get dismissed, dumped or divorced? Well, it's for the same reason the entrepreneurs on Shark Tank get rejected: They lack Clarity of Consciousness."

If you'd like to learn more about the 7 barriers and how they might be sabotaging your ability to attract lasting love, you can preview and/or purchase the e-book or the paperback by clicking HERE.

 

 

Special FREE offer from Pre-Dating's relationship coach, Roy Biancalana:

 

 

It is very challenging to find your ideal partner in today's dating scene. That's why Roy and Pre-Dating.com have partnered together to bring you THE ATTRACTION FACTOR VIDEO SERIES absolutely FREE!

 

In this series of 5 short videos, sent directly to your inbox, Roy will walk you through 5 critical factors that will help you find "the one."

 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

August 4th, 2015

 

 

"The Sexually Intelligent Single Adult"

 

 

 

 

With Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana

 

 

Tuesday, August 4th, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this critically important tele-seminar, hosted by relationship expert and #1 best-selling author, Roy Biancalana, you will learn how to be smart and savvy with your sexual energy so that you can attract a meaningful, lasting relationship.

 

 

Some topics to be discussed include:

 

  • To do it or not to do it—when to get physical
  • How to spot and avoid "players"
  • How to communicate your sexual boundaries
  • Why size really does matter
  • How to be sexually attractive (hint: it's different for men and women)
  • How to handle your sexual energy when you don't have a partner
  • What it means to be "great in the sack" 

 

About Our Speaker

 

Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.

 

Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.

 

 

 

 

 
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Tuesday, August 4th, 2015

 

8:30PM EST

 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

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  • To do it or not to do it—when to get physical
  • How to spot and avoid "players"
  • How to communicate your sexual boundaries
  • Why size really does matter
  • How to be sexually attractive (hint: it's different for men and women)
  • How to handle your sexual energy when you don't have a partner
  • What it means to be "great in the sack" 

  

 

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Featured Testimonial

 

Part 1: 

 

I wanted to tell you about my last speed dating event back in 
January.  You may not remember but I was very resistant about 
attending another event.  In fact, I was dead set against it when you 
called me.  You and my therapist convinced me to try another time. 

 

I had already been three times and I had not been on a single "date" and 
was content to just take a pass on any further attempts at speed 
dating.  I gave it three tries.

Well, it turns out that three times was not the charm.  Turns out that 
four times is the charm.  I met someone very special on the fourth 
time.  She is the love of my life and, while I won't speak for her, 
she's told me the same.  So, it turns out Speed Dating works! We both joke about that a bit because neither of us were 
expecting much and it turned out quite the opposite.

We are both appreciative of having the opportunity to meet each 
other.  What we enjoy now wouldn't have happened otherwise and I'm 
sending this e-mail to let you know that.  I know you don't get much 
feedback but here it is.

 

Take care,

 

Ron (Raleigh, NC), May 2014

 

Part 2:

 

 

Hi Michael,

 

Sharon and I were married in January.  

 

We are both very happy and feel free to use us as an example of how speed dating works, Turns out, it does.

 

I have never been happier in my life, and I'm old (sort of).

 

And we live in NY now!

 

Take care,

 

Ron (Raleigh, NC), April 2015

 

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

 New Pre-Dating.com Cities!


GREAT NEWS!  With the recent addition of Danielle in Washington, DC we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).

 

 

Please apply online HERE!

 

(http://www.pre-dating.com/coordinator.php3)

 

We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Portland, OR
•    Omaha, NB

•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together."

 

-Julia Roberts (Actress)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

Broken heart syndrome, or stress cardiomyopathy, consists in a weakening of the heart muscles due to the unexpected death of a loved one or an unexpected breakup.

 

SOURCE: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/20-random-facts-about-dating-sex-breakups-and-divorce-0

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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