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January 2016

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 180,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Happy New Years from Pre-Dating Speed Dating
  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "The Pursuit of Intimacy" with Roy Biancalana
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

Valentines Day is Around the Corner! 

 

Valentines day is right around the corner, and you know what that means! Roses, chocolates, fancy dinners, lovey-dovey cards... oh wait, we're single! We don't get those!

 

What we do get though, is a time of year that tends to be a little tough on us singles out there. This actually happens to be Pre-Dating Speed Dating's busies time of year, as it reminds us about the importance of being in a relationship and how fulfilling it can be. Now, more then ever is the time to check out one of our events, regardless of whether you have or not in the past- as you are likely to meet many, many new faces this "Season of Love"! 

 

To check out upcoming events in your area, please click HERE! If no events are posted, that likely means we are currently hiring for that market. If you want to make a few extra bucks, simply click HERE to apply. 

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

Whenever I meet someone, it always seems that either they are interested in me, but they are not what I am looking for, or, I am interested in them, but they are not interested in me, what am I missing? 

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Not Interested",

 

To answer this question, you will want to first think of the reason you are NOT interested in the people who have shown interest in you. Is it physical? It is their personality? Maybe it's their income level, or a combination of all three. 

 

Once you have answered this question, you will want to evaluate yourself a bit. Why do you think the people you are interested in are not interested in you? Are you less outgoing due to fear of rejection? Is it possible you are acting differently when you find something you are interested in? These things can be subtle, so it takes a bit of "stepping out of yourself" to objectively ascertain if it's you or simply that it's just the luck of the draw and therefore just a matter of time until both of you share the same interest.

 

It is important to realize these dating "mistakes", as they often lead to rejection. Be social, be yourself and most importantly, don't get caught up in the thought that the person you are interested in will never pick you. Sure, you will still get rejected here and there, but keep positive and the more experience you have, the more confidence you will gain!

 

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

I have attended your events in the past, and I have to say, they are GREAT fun, however, is 6 minutes really enough time? Sometimes I feel rushed. 

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Rushed",

 

Have you ever been on an amazing date and you both cannot seem to get enough of each other and you end up ticking off the waiters at the restaurant because it is after hours and you both are not done talking yet (Yea, we've all done it!)? Or, maybe a horrible date, and it feels like the time goes by at a snails pace? 

 

This is why we limit the time to 6 minutes! Sometimes the time flies, but other times you feel like you are pulling teeth to just get a response from the other party.

 

Studies show, it takes 30 seconds for there to be a sexual attraction, for the remaining 5 minutes and 30 seconds, you may find that the person is not only attractive but has a WONDERFUL personality to boot! Or not, but that's why we like to limit the time to 6- minutes! NEXT! 

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

One of the reasons my newest book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, has become a #1 best-seller on Amazon is because in the book I present a new and radical way of dating and relating, something I call, The Dating Manifesto.

 

The Dating Manifesto is a call to change the culture of dating. It's a challenge to stop playing games and date consciously. So in The Dating Manifesto, I describe 7 commitments of conscious dating. And as I said, they're radical. But when you align your life with the 7 commitments, magic happens. Drama ends and love blooms. The Dating Manifesto is a blueprint for conscious dating and they will help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship.

 

I'm going to share one of the 7 commitments in each of the next seven newsletters. (If you miss any of them, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

Now, in order to make this fun, I'm not only going to present each of the 7 conscious commitments, but I'm also going share their evil twins, or their opposites. Unfortunately, these counter-commitments describe "the game," how most people normally date. Choosing the conscious commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting lasting love.

 

So far, we've discussed Responsibility, Curiosity, Authenticity, Allies and Enough. The 6th commitment in The Dating Manifesto is Source. Here's how I describe it.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #6: Source

 

I commit to being the source of my emotional needs, including my desire for love, security, worthiness, happiness, specialness and connectedness. I commit to releasing my future partner from the responsibility of having to heal a wound, end a story, fill a hole or meet a need.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people date …

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT #6: Out-Source

 

I commit to out-sourcing my emotional needs, making my future partner responsible for alleviating my loneliness and making me feel safe, wanted, seen, loved, happy, or whole. And when they don't, I commit to manipulating, blaming, controlling or punishing them for not "being there for me."

 

Taking full responsibility for your emotional needs, and not projecting them on your future partner, is the pillar of what I stand for in the world. Nearly 95% of all single people have this "you complete me" mindset to one degree or another. And I should know, because I had this "disease" for decades and it ruined every single relationship I had.

 

Yet, alarmingly, most people think the purpose of a relationship is to actually find someone who will meet your emotional needs! That's tragic because this out-sourcing is THE root cause of all our relationship drama, pain and heartache. Life partners make lousy life sources.

 

Even though I had just a mild case of the "you complete me" mindset, it still caused a divorce, a break up with a fiancée and numerous dating disasters. Friends, this out-sourcing is ruining your love life and most people don't know they're doing it, and yet almost everyone is! But I've learned how to be the source my own needs and now I have a relationship most people would die for. I'd love to share how it happened right here, but there's no room. Besides, I've already told the whole story in my book.

 

If your love life is not satisfying, then take advantage of The Attracting Lasting Love Complimentary Coaching Session™. It's a 30-minute free conversation where I help you discover the primary issue that's keeping you single and what to do about it. Email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call me at 407-687-3387 to set up an appointment.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar

February 9th 2016

 

"The Pursuit of Intimacy"

 

With Certified Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana

Tuesday, Feb. 9th, 2016

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

When our speaker, Roy Biancalana, was single, he found the pursuit of intimacy to be a difficult and disappointing experience. Now that he's a #1 best-selling author, a certified relationship coach and a happily married man, Roy is going to share some very personal and powerful insights on pursing intimacy, things he wishes someone had told him when he was single.

 
In this seminar, Roy will share:

  • Why his pursuit of intimacy actually prevented it
  • How he stopped attracting the same problematic partners and patterns over and over again
  • What he did when he felt lonely and scared that he'd never meet someone
  • The one decision he made that led directly to meeting the love of his life

 

 

About Our Speaker:

 

Roy Biancalana: is known as "The Intimacy Guru," and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, "A Drink with Legs" sold worldwide.

 

Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.

 

 

 


***PLUS RSVP NOW TO RECEIVE THIS FREE BONUS***

 

  • One free 30 Minute Exploratory Coaching Session
  • Special discounts from on Roy's many programs
  • And more!

Tuesday, February 9th, 2016

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

 


 

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FREE Dating Teleseminar

January 9th, 2016

"The Pursuit of Intimacy"

 

 

With Certified Relationship Coach and Author, Roy Biancalana

 

Tuesday, Feb. 9th, 2016 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this seminar, Roy will share:

  • Why his pursuit of intimacy actually prevented it
  • How he stopped attracting the same problematic partners and patterns over and over again
  • What he did when he felt lonely and scared that he'd never meet someone
  • The one decision he made that led directly to meeting the love of his life

  

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Featured Testimonial

 

Hi there, Ann...

Wanted to update you...I met a wonderful man at one of your events in April 2012 and we have formed a lovely relationship! I must say, I am very happy. And although I enjoyed myself at your event, I am doubtful that I will be attending anytime soon. :)

Best of luck on making additional connections.

Cheers!

Jennifer (Cincinnati, Jan 2014)  

 

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

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GREAT NEWS!  With the recent additions of Emmanuel in Houston, TX, Angela in Santa Fe, NM, and Michel in Tulsa and Oklahoma City, OK  we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
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Please apply online HERE!

 

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We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Los Angeles, CA
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•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?"

 

-Neil LaBute (Filmmaker)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

Humans like mystery and "the chase," so don't be too "available" to a date. Dating experts typically suggest not sleeping too early with a date because the longer the chase, the more likely love will blossom.

 

SOURCE:

 http://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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