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December 2015

 

                                        

 

 

 

 

IN THIS NEWSLETTER:

 

Sent to over 180,000 Single Professionals!

 

  • Happy New Years from Pre-Dating Speed Dating
  • Q&A Forum From Singles Just Like You!
  • Expansion News
  • Featured Client Review
  • Roy's Relationship Corner- Special FREE Offer for Roy's Dating Advice Website!
  • FREE Pre-Dating Teleseminar: "What's Keeping You Single? Starting the New Year As a Smarter New You!" with Rosalind Sedacca and Amy Sherman
  • Crazy Dating Fact of the Month
  • Quote of the Month

 

 

Happy New Years! 

 

We here at Pre-Dating Speed Dating would like to wish you, and your family a very happy and safe new year! 

 

Many of you may be searching for new connections, or possibly even a new love come 2016. Be sure to check out some local events in your area by going to www.Pre-Dating.com and navigating over to your city listings.

 

If we do not have any events listed, this likely means we are currently hiring in your area! If you are interested in joining our team by bringing events to your area, and want some extra side income- simply apply online at www.Pre-Dating.com/Join-Us.

 

Again, Happy New Year! See you in 2016!

 

Sincerely,

 

The Pre-Dating Speed Dating Staff

 

 

Q&A  FORUM:

 

 

 

Questions From Other Singles Like You



Wondering about Speed Dating events or how Pre-Dating does them? Maybe just a relationship question in general? Some other people did as well and here are their questions to us.

 

If you have a question, simply email us at Questions@Pre-Dating.com and if selected for our next Newsletter you'll get a complimentary ticket to one of our events.


 

 

QUESTION #1:

 

Dear Pre-Dating, 

 

I am sick of meeting people, developing a great connection, then having them fall off the face of the earth. What gives?! 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Runaway Bride Victim",

 

Thank you for your question! This seems to be such a large issue now because of the over-abundance of access singles now have to other local singles. Though the initial thought of online dating was, in theory, a genius idea- what was not expected was for this noble idea to turn into the monster that it has today. 

 

The "grass is always greener" mentality is rearing it's ugly face more then ever especially when it comes to dating. Between smart phone apps, and the plethora of online dating websites, it is taking people 3-4 times longer to commit to one individual then prior to the internet dating age. 

 

So- what do you need to do to stand out in the dating pool?

 

First, and foremost, do not allow yourself to carry the weight of these failed relationship attempts. At the end of the day- would you want to be with someone who didn't see the best in you? Probably not.

 

Second, focus on friendship first. Do not put the pressure of a romantic relationship on someone initially. Develop a friendship, and see where it goes from there. I recommend going on several coffee dates with people. No pressure, and no large expense. If there is a connection, then follow up and begin developing a friendly relationship.

 

You see- another thing lost in the internet age seems to be patience. We've become a society of instant gratification. When it comes to relationships- speaking on healthy ones- these don't happen over night. These take time to build. 

 

I hope this helps sort things out a bit for you.

 

 

 

QUESTION #2:

 

Hi Pre-Dating,

 

I am a 57 year old man who is looking to meet women in their 30's or 40's, however, I see all of your event in my age group are 50+, what gives?

 

 

Answer from Pre-Dating

 

Dear "Young At Heart",

 

As you can probably imagine, this is one of the most commonly asked questions, and yes, we offer special interest events from time to time which include "younger women / older men" and conversely "younger men / older women" and these events cover various age differences.

 

While many people say "age is just a number" at the same time, some people do have preferences relating to the age of those they date (both younger or older) and for a variety of reasons. 

 

One thing some people don't know until they actually attend one of our events is that for most events more men tend to be at the upper end of the age range, while more women tend to be at the lower end of the age range. So if you saw we had an event for single professionals ages 49-59, then on average, most women would be closer to 49 while most men would be closer to 59. There are of course some women and men in the upper or lower part of the range respectively, but our statistics show men trend older while women trend lower within a posted age range for an event.

 

Lastly, while we do strive to ensure attendees are within the stated age range for an event, we cannot guarantee it and we do often allow an exception or two maximum (both under or over an age range). It's up to your local Event Coordinator (EC) so be sure to contact your EC, let he or she know you are a bit outside the stated age range and if you can attend. If there are not already other people of your gender on the registration list that are outside the age range, then odds are it may be fine.

 

So what does this mean to Mr. Young At Heart? It means if you don't see a special event for younger women / older men, you should still consider attending an event based on what we've stated in our answer to you plus you can always email your EC to see if you can squeeze into an event you are slightly outside the age range of.

 

Roy's Relationship Corner

 

 

 

 

One of the reasons my newest book, Attracting Lasting Love: Breaking Free of the 7 Barriers that Keep You Single, has become a #1 best-seller on Amazon is because in the book I present a new and radical way of dating and relating, something I call, The Dating Manifesto.

 

The Dating Manifesto is a call to change the culture of dating. It's a challenge to stop playing games and date consciously. So in The Dating Manifesto, I describe 7 commitments of conscious dating. And as I said, they're radical. But when you align your life with the 7 commitments, magic happens. Drama ends and love blooms. The Dating Manifesto is a blueprint for conscious dating and they will help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship.

 

I'm going to share one of the 7 commitments in each of the next seven newsletters. (If you miss any of them, email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I'll send them to you.)

Now, in order to make this fun, I'm not only going to present each of the 7 conscious commitments, but I'm also going share their evil twins, or their opposites. Unfortunately, these counter-commitments describe "the game," how most people normally date. Choosing the conscious commitment over its "evil twin" is the key to enjoying your dating experience and attracting lasting love.

 

So far, we've discussed Responsibility, Curiosity and Authenticity. The 4th commitment in The Dating Manifesto is Allies. Here's how I describe it.

 

CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT #4: Allies

 

I commit to seeing the people I date, and all my former partners, as allies, perfectly suited to help me learn the most important things for my growth.

 

Now, here's its "evil twin." This is how most people date …

 

COUNTER-COMMITMENT #4: Enemies

 

I commit to seeing the people and circumstances in my dating experience as mistakes, baggage, enemies and impediments to having the relationship I want.

 

This commitment is, perhaps, the hardest one to swallow of them all (it is for me, anyway). If it sounds radical, that's because it is. The idea here is that we get to choose how we view our past relationships and experiences. We get to decide if it's all been for our good and growth (even if it's been painful) or if it's all been a terrible mistake and an impediment to our lives.

 

How do we see God (or the Universe or Spirit or Oneness or Presence or whatever you call IT)? Is everything supporting our growth and aliveness or is life a random, cosmic joke? If we commit to seeing everything and everyone as our allies, perfectly suited for our growth, then notice how all our baggage dissolves!

 

Appreciation replaces bitterness, openness replaces closure, trust replaces fear. We don't know who our next relationship will be with, or how it will turn out, but we do know it will be exactly what we need! Therefore, we can live with a grateful, open, free, fearless and loving heart, and aren't those the sexiest, most attractive qualities in the world?

 

If your love life is not satisfying, then take advantage of The Attracting Lasting Love Complimentary Coaching Session™. It's a 30-minute free conversation where I help you discover the primary issue that's keeping you single and what to do about it. Email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call me at 407-687-3387 to set up an appointment.

 

 

FREE Dating Teleseminar

Jan 5th 2016

 

"What's Keeping You Single?
Starting the New Year As a Smarter New You!"

 

With Certified Relationship Coaches and Authors, Rosalind Sedacca and Amy Sherman

 

Tuesday, Jan. 5th, 2016

 

8:30PM EST

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Certified Relationship Coaches and authors Rosalind Sedacca and Amy Sherman provide a fresh new approach to dating and relationships.

 

In this must-hear program you'll learn how to ...

  • Overcome relationship struggles
  • Identify unproductive patterns
  • Make better dating choices
  • Attract more desirable partners
  • And have more fun being single!

 

About Our Speakers
 

Rosalind Sedacca is a Dating & Relationship Coach, a Divorce & Parenting Coach and co-author of 99 Things Women Wish They Knew About Dating After 40, 50 & Yes, 60! She is also the founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network for parents and author of How Do I Tell the Kids About the Divorce? Rosalind is an Expert Blogger for The Huffington Post, an Advisor at ParentalWisdom.com as well as a Contributing Writer for Exceptional People Magazine and the 2008 First Place Winner of the Victorious Woman Award and co-creator of the Create Your Ideal Relationship Kit for singles.
 
Amy Sherman has a master's degree in counseling/psychology and is a coach, trainer and co-author of 99 things Women Wish They Knew Before Dating After 40, 50, and Yes, 60! Amy understands the needs, challenges and insecurities singles face in finding meaningful relationships and helps them avoid the disasters and disappointment they often experience when dating in mid-life.  She is also the author of Distress-Free Aging: A Boomer's Guide to Creating a Fulfilled and Purposeful Life and The Joy of Optimism 10-Lesson eCourse, which offer strategies for overcoming adversity and other challenges of middle age.

 

 

 


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FREE Dating Teleseminar

January 5th, 2016

"What's Keeping You Single?"

Starting the New Year As a Smarter New You!

 

 

With Certified Relationship Coaches and Authors, Rosalind Sedacca and Amy Sherman

Tuesday, Jan. 5th, 2016 at 8:30PM EST

 

– Free-

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

In this must-hear program you'll learn how to ...

  • Overcome relationship struggles
  • Identify unproductive patterns
  • Make better dating choices
  • Attract more desirable partners
  • And have more fun being single!

  

 

RSVP HERE NOW!

 

 

Featured Testimonial

 

Matt,

 

I meant to email this summer but time flies.  I remember our host saying at the event we went to that you wanted to know if we ended up in a relationship after one of pre dating's events.  

 

Well we met at Amber 3 1/2 years ago and got married last spring so it did work for us.

 

- Jen and Jon (Seattle, Dec 2015)

 

 

 

 

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EXPANSION NEWS:

 

 

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GREAT NEWS!  With the recent addition of Amber in Louisville, KY  we now offer monthly events in over 90 US and Canadian cities!
 
Work With Pre-Dating - Become an Event Coordinator

If you are interested in playing matchmaker and adding a new adventure and challenge to your life (part time).

 

 

Please apply online HERE!

 

(http://www.pre-dating.com/coordinator.php3)

 

We Are Currently Looking For An Event Coordinator in the Following Cities, and MORE! 

  

•    Los Angeles, CA
•    Houston, TX

•    San Francisco, CA

 

...And other event locations available!

 

 

QUOTE OF THE MONTH

 

 

"If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else."

 

 -Jennifer Lopez (Singer and Actess)

 

 

 

CRAZY DATING FACT OF THE MONTH

 

A recent AOL survey says that 40% of women view an appropriate time frame to wait for sex as being one to three months, while 35% of men think the third date is fine. On average, couples have sex within about four to six dates.

 

SOURCE:

 http://facts.randomhistory.com/dating-and-relationship-facts.html

 

About Pre-Dating

 

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is the world's largest Speed Dating service for busy single professionals with monthly events in over 90 cities. If you have a busy life and don't have time to meet new people, don't like to date clients or co-workers, and are not interested in the bar scene then try Pre-Dating Speed Dating.

 

 

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